Self Mastery Tip / Lesson : Speech

Our design is to be creating our reality with our thoughts and words, as we go from moment to moment, using our wisdom and our creativity to make the best choices for our life path, and the world at large.

We are not designed to be firing questions at one another as in so doing so we are directing another’s consciousness around.

They are not us, and we are not them, 😉 and it is for each of us to say the next thing that comes to us to say, to create OUR reality.    This is essential to get ourselves ON our path, and to stay ON our path.

A TIP~ If it is challenging to go straight from a habit of questioning another, to a habit of sharing what ‘comes to mind’, try this!

Begin with a question that will start this off, such as:

“Do you have anything you feel to say?”
“Do you want to say anything to me?”
“Is there anything you would like to share?”

These will help break the habit of directing another what to think of, AND develop the new habit of each human present sharing what THEY each want to share.

Historically people developed the questioning ‘skill’ to help in ‘making conversation’, considered a social skill, an ‘art’ and taught in finishing schools.  How many topics a ‘lady’ could speak on, part of schooling in various etiquette schools

If someone did not have something to share, they were asked questions to encourage them.  But a made-up conversation is just that, REMOVED from in the now, and in-the-moment-reality relating. It is off-track, off-path and unnatural and not part of our design.

Some one may not have something to share with very good reason.  This could be that they are ‘in development’ why make comments when they can be better suited to listen, ponder, dream, imagine, learn, create and process within?

Sometimes it is talking just because the silence is a cause of discomfort for us.  In this silence we are face with our selves. This is our time to check in on US, do what healing and clearing we need to do, to sense everything, to feel, to send our consciousness to other aspects of us.

Silence is a natural state for us, and we are not designed to be filling it with words.  Silence shapes our words, and gives them their substance!

I repeat: Our design is to be creating our reality with our thoughts and words, as we go from moment to moment, using our wisdom and our creativity to make the best choices for our life path, and the world at large. 🙂

If I Make Sound, I Exist?

My mother forbade me from making a sound, so she could pretend I didn’t exist.  I also had to “keep out of sight and out of mind.”

Starting life in the situation of not being allowed to speak, made it easy for me to see that many people were taking it for granted.  They could speak so easily, and how I wished I could too….

But they were playing ‘verbal table tennis’ with it I thought, and completely wasting it.  Did they not know how it created our lives?
It seemed not.

use words I am the creater of my life, I am n

Language is our greatest creative tool.  Self mastery is knowing to carefully choose from our thoughts which ones to ‘activate’.  When we decide to speak, we shape our sound that is our emotional state and we give it recognizable meaning.

Each vocal expression, shares with the Universe and everyone in audible range, our emotion, intent, soul essence, declaration – by way of our chosen series of words or ‘spell’ – and ALL in a unique combination of sound frequencies that are carried on our breath/ life force.
A ‘spell’ is simply a carefully chosen series of words, spoken with intent.  There is NO difference between a spell, and every day speech, using our language with full creative power ability.

All throughout English history there have been developments in language but all stemming from ignorance as to the greater point of Human language ability.  Lots of silly repetitive phrasing double negatives, puns and jokes and slang and more….but when we come down to it, we do need to be learning how to speak again!!!!  I find the English language construct inadequate for our intellectual reasoning developmental ability anyway.  I am extremely concerned with what occurs when English is even further limited as is common in Australia with the chronic shortening of words.  Many of us now, particularly English only speakers, suffer to varying degrees from a ‘chronic deficiency syndrome’ or a marked reduction in functioning and development because of a severely reduced vocabulary.  As Humans we are our language.

I was not allowed to develop speech and after surviving all attempts to harm me, needed this ability when I lived to school age, and started school. Children tormented me when I was not able to say my name in front of the class as we were all made to do the first day. Very shy and not wanting to be bullied or teased any more, I quickly learned how to ‘get through’ life with minimal speech. And every coping strategy I could creatively design to seem as though I did not have enormous speech problems.
How I wished I could speak with ease, but I was able to get the insight with ease instead, as to what speech we actually need as humans, and what speech is adverse or negates creating our best life!

“I am” is our greatest creative building block we can use. When we make a negative comment we waste our creative ability.
We can speak, and totally negate any creative intent simply by incorrect phrasing! Try instead to aim to speak maximizing your creativity.
Silence is pretty cool too! Do you need to comment to something – or would silence make a more amazing impact? 
Silence shapes our sound. Silence assists activation of our chosen phrases, giving them greater power. Begin with intending to speak what is your truth. You are not designed to only be saying what others say.
Chances are you are able to speak without the problems I had, so what if you could have a much better life, just by speaking differently?
It is a miracle, use it wisely! 

 

So if I am silent do I cease to exist? 😉

Do you need to make a comment – or would silence make a more amazing impact? Perhaps silence IS the answer, allowing you to receive respectfully and ponder it.more deeply?

Silence enables us the space to receive messages and choose from our thoughts.  Silence gives us a safe place where we can check in on our Self.  Some people find silence too scary and threatening, if they do not know how to face what comes to them in that space, or how to deal with the energies there, that are waiting to leave us.

In speech, it is silence that shapes our sound.  Silence assists activation of our chosen phrases, giving them greater power.  We exist, arguably in our receiving state…and a VERY important state for a human being to Be in, AS IS OUR DESIGN. 🙂

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