The Continual Questioning Of “How are you?”


1. Takes our focus from our goal to Be At One with everything. Life, each other, the Universe. ūüôā

I do not answer the question but keep to my regular greeting of someone. We are meant to greet one another with our sound and it is a gift of energy and our essence that we offer them.
I am always feeling what the questioner is feeling anyway because I am an Empath. Often people do not want to know this, and I am feeling their discomfort or sadness….certainly I am not going to say “I am feeling your sadness, ūüėČ Instead I am reminded how appropriate it is for us to greet one another with our: Greetings! Good Day/Morning/Eve to You! Allow anything further to come from a sharing space, when someone offers the next thing to say that comes to them from themselves.

2. Removes us from the present moment, as we leave it to enter into our mind / memory files / elsewhere, AWAY from the here and now to come up with something to say in response.

We are not meant to be questioning one another anyway. We are the manager/mistress of all our cells/abilities/aspects, and it is for us to choose our thoughts and to direct our consciousness as suits us at all times.
If someone is asking us a question, they are directing our consciousness, they are putting their will onto us. We are all at different stages of conscious development. It is crazy to me when the guy at the checkout in the supermarket starts questioning me,(as is common here in Australia), but as he would do at his level of consciousness.
Honoring one another as the vast and magnificent beings that we are, from a place of gratitude for whatever is chosen to be shared with us, is how we develop and encourage others, to our full potential. ūüôā

3. Trivializes our important job of reading our feelings accurately, and acting accordingly.
As humans are design is to manage our feelings, as this is how we receive information from our subconscious selves ie body/intuition/all else we are. It makes it challenging if we become accustomed to a habit of ignoring our real feelings to say something in response to a common question from someone not is doing it as they were told to as part of their job.
Be confident, smile and greet with a gift of your energy, and be in command of where you place your consciousness and focus! ūüôā

Problem Or Challenge?

I don’t actually see anything as a ‘problem’, but only a challenge and opportunity for us to rise and grow.

I overheard the word ‘problem’ used many times today, and I don’t choose to ever use it.
The word itself – to produce and to hear – has the effect of blocking a free flow of energy. It’s clutter of consonants all together, make it a challenge to even say, compared with ‘challenge’ that has open vowels that allow for a free airflow so our breath doesn’t need to do complex gymnastics over our lips teeth and tongue!

We are meant to be faced with opportunities to grow and such is the point of life, so why on earth give ourselves a silly word that almost defeats this purpose!!! ūüėČ Crazy!

Try them both and notice how they feel. ¬†ūüôā

On Just Being…I take up the challenge to define it!

  • 1.Just ‘Being’ defined.
  • 2.What is being in a thoughtless space.
  • 3.What else happens when there are no thoughts
  • 4. Why just Being is a goal we want to achieve as Humans

I am taking words maestro Mr Joel Roberts up on his ¬†challenge! ¬†At his seminar ‘The Language Of Impact’ in Los Angeles last February, ¬†he said that ‘Being’ was beyond description. ¬†It is a place I know well, since beginning to seek safety in the higher realms of consciousness as a small child, when the only place I had to run away to, was as far as I could get behind my eyes.

One example of this is when my older brother would come into my bedroom at night. ¬†He was encouraged to hurt me , actually to attempt to kill me, so it would look like a home accident , at my mother’s ‘order’. ¬†She had an escape route this way and was a firm believer in the old British teachings “people have children to do their dirty work”. ¬†She wanted me removed from the picture, and this way she would not be held responsible.

My brother grew frustrated, as what he did to me only injured me, gave me scars and gave him a feeling of inadequacy.  I could sense his annoyance and I did my best to avoid him at all times.

I could not get away when he visited me in bed however, and he would step up onto it, so he was standing on top of me.  He would pin me down with his shoes and hold a foot up over me, then stamp around me, threatening to stamp on my body and head, moving his foot to just miss me and hit the bedclothes.

This is one example of when I would go as far, and as fast, behind my eyes as I could.  There was no other place to go, as my body was being restricted and controlled.

Joel Roberts is a former prime time talk show host on KABC Radio, Los Angeles.  Today, Joel is president of his own media and communications consulting firm, in L.A and New York.

‘Being’ is a feeling state, and a higher, more evolved state, than just thinking. ¬†To achieve a ¬†‘feeling state’, requires a controlled cease, of thought activity, or what I call the thought ‘conveyor belt’.

It is our efficiency of design that sees to it, that thoughts flow along what I call the ‘corridor’ or ‘conveyor-belt’ behind our ‘mind foyer’. ¬†These thoughts are given us, by our subconscious, and are thoughts that connect/attach/associate with,¬†everything, that we experience in any given moment from all of our senses and abilities.

In my Self Mastery course structure, “Human Being Essentials”, I have Thought Mastery at semester 1, with Feeling Mastery at semester 2 or beyond, to demonstrate the higher level and governing influence, of the power of feeling energy.

‘Being’ is a superior, specialized, advanced, higher, more evolved, state, than thinking or doing.¬†It is the ability to hold a state of a feeling regardless of what goes on around you, it is a non-reactionary constant state. ¬†For example:

I can just Be love and restfulness or

Be blissful contentment or

Be pure raw sexual energy or

Be peacefulness or

Be radiant love or

Be Creative energy or

Be righteous guidance or

Be loving compassion or

Be healing sound or

Be Woman energy or

Be Divine light or

Be vital enthusiasm or

Be contagious fun and joy and so on.

When we can hold a thoughtless space, we allow for what else is available to us as Human Beings.

What then happens, is information arrives inside us, without us putting it there.  Without us needing to access it from our memory, our thought space or anywhere else.  We do not need to think it, imagine it, dream it or otherwise.

Information – or an idea – ‘comes to us’. ¬†The words ‘come to mind’ may be used here, and you may have already experienced this happen.

It may be an amusing thought – our spirit guidance loves it when we laugh.

It may be the answer to something you already wanted to know.

It may operate like a commentary, where you get data that corresponds with what your eyes scan.

It may be the answer to a life drama, where you are ‘guided’ –¬†given the idea – of the next moves you need to make for your life.

You may receive this information as thoughts that are similar to ones you create, or you may see it visually as though you are watching a DVD.  It may come to you in a way that is unique to you.

In this space you can trust that you¬†will know what you need to know when you need to know it. ¬†This is the “faith” that is referred to in the Bible and similar of any known religious ‘Faith’.

In this disciplined thoughtless space there is no need at all, to be thinking about anything.

The fantastic consequence of achieving this ability, is Life is magnified exponentially in this state.  Every bit of energy that you usually put into thinking goes into receipt of life.

Every sense is magnified to the extent that you cannot believe, believe me.;)

The universe rewards us with an increase in sensitivity.  ESP or extra-sensory perception, also known as being psychic, is only a natural consequence of spending time in your higher levels of consciousness.

As time goes on, life just gets better and better and makes more and more sense.

I could spend hours absorbing just what my eyes take in, when I look at a tree, the depth of colour, the zoom ability, it is absolutely incredible, and all because I am not thinking.

Sexual pleasure takes on whole new height of ecstasy, as we are able to be fully present in this activity – ‘Being Present’ is just being another way of saying ‘Being Conscious’ or ‘holding a thoughtless space’. ¬†Tantra is just another way of ¬†saying ‘Living Consciously’ but it is for sex that it is more widely associated.

No time spent holding Рor attempting to hold Рa thoughtless space, is wasted as  rewards being to occur straight away.  The first of which is thinking is actually easier and sharper, and we tend to notice an increase in our senses as time goes on.

These rewards continue to build and increase until we leave the earth.

It is simply Human to master your thoughts.

Begin with noticing them.  Bring an awareness of them to your consciousness.  Have the intent to begin to notice them.

Notice when they first arrive, do you have a pattern to them? ¬†What thought do you get when? ¬†Are they ‘ad hoc’, appearing to you ‘willy nilly’, or are they associated with what you are looking at?

And very importantly, notice the space between the thoughts.   There is one, no matter how small or inconsequential at first, and this is an essential part of Thought Mastery.

You are alive now….but being able to just Be…is Being¬† A.L.I.V.E !!!! ¬† : )

The common question : “How Are You?” Is it working for us?

It doesn’t make sense for a start!¬†: )¬†I consider it is a major language error, given the extent of its use, the reason for language, and for what is attainable by us.¬†¬† This is a thorough exam,¬†with alternative suggestions!

It is¬† a question, that¬†reduces¬† or completely separates us,¬†from a state of ‘connection with all that is’.¬†¬†¬† It does not encourage, assist or enhance personal growth at all.¬†

It accurately could be called ‘the question of the unconscious’! ¬† It is used as a learned enquiry into someone’s health, but really it is a demand.¬†¬† It is telling someone what to say next, to explain themselves to you, and directing their consciousness on what to think.

What a developed consciousness feels is a ‘oneness’ with all other matter, and a lack of a vibrational ‘end’ between oneself and anything else, as everything that exists is vibrating.

In this state of oneness everything is felt, you are part of the ‘all’ of matter, and there is no ‘separate’ in existence for you at all.¬†

It is not possible in this state of heightened awareness – that is attainable by all – to decipher “How you are?”¬†¬†as in this context, this question loses all relevance, and doesn’t even apply.¬†

¬†This¬†state of ‘oneness’¬†is also where all senses and pleasures are heightened¬†andwhere¬†blissfulness is the reliable norm, so it is not something that you want to leave in a hurry……if at all.

To Be in the Present Moment is not a place from which it is possible to consider the question How Are You?

It may seem or feel like you are doing a kind and considerate thing  Рas it is what you have been taught. 

But, to be reduced to need to explain yourself at speed in a grocery queue, to someone you do not know and may never see again, with a long line of people behind you??!    This does not validate you, or  your feelings! : )

To answer it truthfully and meaningfully does not fit this setting at all.   Imagine

“Thank you for asking, I am feeling hurried at the moment when I would really love to feel in¬†a blissful state of oneness with the people in this queue;)” Or “Thank you, I am not feeling like I would most want to be feeling as I have a problem with the neighbours, so it is not as restful for me at home as I would like.¬† Frank was made redundant at work so finances are a bit of a struggle and Louise needs more textbooks for the seminar special study course which is causing us challenges..¬† how are you?”¬†¬† You can see the shop worker’s eyebrows raising as really they have just been told to ask you as part of the continued misunderstanding of the appropriatness of the question to us.¬† Really they are just wanting to do their job, and wish you would finish so they can serve the next person, or get their lunch break!!

What about ¬†just a change of a couple of words to make a non question:¬† “I hope you are well!”¬† Can you feel the difference?

It would be easier all round to give one another a greeting that fit the situation, than to ask them How Are You?

I go as far as say it is detrimental to a developing  consciousness, to be asking this regularly, and counter-productive to an attainment of a better understanding of life, what you are, and of the way your human life works.  All of these are a natural result of being in the present moment.

The state of attainment of serenity and bliss from feeling a ‘oneness’ with ‘all that is’ is the natural state for us.¬† This is simply the result for us when we learn to ‘drive’ ourselves, or how to Be ourselves.

Historically , I believe it is a question that began from ignorance,(ignorance;without knowledge) within developing society.

I believe it increased in popularity, with the increase in¬†a ‘class’ structure, and when being able to¬†‘question’ someone at all, was a distinction of where you fit in the ‘ranks’ and how many subordinates (those beneath you)¬†you had.¬†

Do not question me!” “Who do you think you are to question me?!”¬† ¬†were methods of control used, and who you could, and could not question, a mark of social rank.¬†¬† To be able to ask questions freely of those in your rank/class – without reprimand – would have felt acceptable, camaraderic and even bonding experiences.

Let’s break it down:

“How”¬†¬†¬† Few fully understand what they are, so that alone is enough to make imagining¬†‘how’¬† impossible.;)¬† ‘How’ is to explain oneself, and to answer that literally, would be to explain the entire process of you manifesting in the physical and I haven’t been able to do that in one blog yet…;)

“are”¬†¬†¬†¬† The verb “to be”.¬†¬† ‘Being’ requires knowledge of what one is, in order they might¬† Be it, so ‘same as above’;)

“you”¬†¬†¬† Again requiring knowledge of what one is, knowing what is the ‘you’ or ‘me’, and what separates us. Also what joins us, and¬†knowledge of when we are separate, and when are we one again.

The answer to this is a long explanation, and not in any way, shape, or form, ‘a greeting’.¬† It is a philosophical request, of a very personal nature, literally meaning ‘how did you manifest into this time and space to be before me’.

Do you really mean to ask this?  Do you want really to be questioning anyone when you meet or greet them?  What about a return to a real greeting of a gift of energy?  In most other languages greetings continue to be used.

In Australia I find “How are ya?”or “How ya going?” ¬†has all but replaced a greeting of any kind.¬†

The “good day/morning/evening” was considered too British and a desire to be more relaxed and casual caused it to be dropped, and to keep just the second part – the enquiry into someone’s wellbeing.¬† Energetically though, this removed the greeting altogether.

So ‘How are you?’¬† is not really a greeting at all, but an enquiry.¬†

I best describe it as ‘a demand’¬†or a request to¬†‘explain yourself” to whoever wants to know!¬†

Suddenly you are expected to give them your full attention, and to have them direct your consciousness to wherever they direct it, like it is a piece of toffee on their stick.;)

Or, that your vastness, memory files, and complete storage of all that you are in your life so far, is no more than a magazine to be flicked through at their leisure!;)

It was never an appropriate enquiry, more an attempt as ‘seeming to care’ as it became more popularized and commercialized.¬†¬† With loved ones, it still remains appropriate when time and setting allow for truth.

In Australia, common responses to it are ‘”Good.” ; “Good, howsyerself¬†Good?” and “S’all Good” (It is¬†all good).¬†

Considering a large % of the population is on medication for depression but still responds “Good”, demonstrates¬† that this verbal expression stays at the ”mind level’ rather than being a truth.¬†

It is not helpful to a situation of deteriorating/declining happiness to make irrelevant the very creative building blocks that words are, for us, when used as they are intended.

I also feel it is unkind, to use this enquiry so freely in an impersonal, commercial setting. 

There are people commonly now, who are dealing with bad feelings, and coping well, and to have their consciousness brought back suddenly without their choosing, to be reminded that prehaps they are not really the happiest at the moment, but not wanting anyone to know, or not wanting to feel it again for themselves Рonly leads to further disconnection from their own truth, and thus widens the gap from themselves and the chance to heal it.

Not using words in truth, maintains the status quo, contributes to it, assists your slide downhill, and definitely does nothing to assist it.;)

When words are said from the mind only – ¬†as in mind, mouth, mind, mouth, mind, mouth’¬† – at no time, does it ever touch or connect with our true self.¬†

As an energy being, our centre, is located in our heart chakra, and is positioned approximately at the bottom of our ‘sternum’ – end of mid ribcage, for us.

It is the centre, as the chakra above our heads Рthat can not be seen by most human eyes Р is included, in this division.

When someone slows down their answer, taking a breath,  energetically their own consciousness includes the lower chakras. 

When someone answers more slowly, on their breath,¬†the rest of theirself – without any knowledge of them/their names/the point , needing to be brought to conscious awareness, of the vessel of the forthcoming phrase. – automatically is connected and ‘driven’ right!

A variation of “How is your day?” understandably may have seemed to have been a correction of kinds, to a more caring, more modern approach, a ‘bigger ask’ even.¬† It does exactly the same removal from ‘the moment’ as the original.¬†

To leave the moment – where a developed consciousness is – to assess the entire day, though you are still in it, is not actually something that a human being need be doing, is not something that is healthy for a human being to be doing, and I am sure it is not even a natural human behaviour at all!

It is most likely a ‘construct’,¬†imagined behaviour or ‘culture created from a loungeroom’¬† which is what ¬†I began to call such behaviours some years ago.;))

I like to be in a nonthinking¬†or Zen state whenever I can, as LIFE IS INCREDIBLE like that.¬† It is like being on the best drug without any side effects.¬† Colours are brighter, everything comes so close to my eyes it is like I can touch things that are miles away….all senses are heightened to the max.

Sharing ‘what is brought to mind’ from a zen or non-thinking state is completely possible, but accessing information, requires we turn the mind on, and this is what is necessary to answer a question.¬† The mind is ‘activated’ or turned ‘on’ ,when we need to access information, from ‘storage’ within us.

When I hear “how are ya?”¬† I interpret it within, as a greeting, and I lead or respond with a good morning/afternoon/evening or hello/heh etc.¬†

Greetings as understood as a gift of energy are wonderful.  Why do we wanting to make demands of one another?  Greeting with a gift rather than a demand/drain/requirement of energy, then allows for a restful sharing of what comes to mind for any or either or no one.

It begins a more natural way of relating.

It encourages a natural ‘bringing to mind’ from another’s sharing, that their presence enables you to experience.¬† You are given opportunity to express this natural verbal sharing, thus creating your reality, as the mirrors for this that you are for oneanother.

I guarantee that you will receive what is uppermost in this other person to share with you, specifically.¬† If they need to share ‘how they are doing with something’ you will hear it! : )

Gifts of energy greetings¬† come naturally when we meet friends, lovers. partners and kin, as we have an interest in keeping them vibrationally¬†‘up’ as that strengthens them and us.¬† We are strong when they are strong and well.¬† It is easier to see the relation that we have to oneanothers vibration when we break it done like this.

¬†¬†So, you are meeting another human/energy being in the street.¬† The following are examples of ‘greetings’ that are gifts of energy.¬†

The experience becomes a mutually energizing exchange this way.  None are questions, demands, or reducers of energy.

Try following this method, and notice the changes in your own energy and feelings of those you meet. 

¬†Smile – the face shows it sees a delight (an ‘energy raiser’)¬† Nod your head perhaps, what else happens to your body as your energy moves?¬† Speak what comes to mind for you – a ‘sharing’ – from the presence/energy of this being/other.

¬†Remember to breathe down inside your solar plexus/diaphragm prior to speech, to assist you in connecting with yourself and what is true for you at that time¬†– otherwise called ‘your Truth”.

Examples of greetings using the English language follow, but if your own comes to you, it does so for a reason.  These are only to give you an idea :

 A joyous day to you Madam!  ; A glorious day to you Sir! ; Good morning/afternoon/evening!  ;   Hello! ;   Hey! ;    Good to see you! ;  You look lovely this sunny morning! ;   Wow you look great! ;    I am so glad to see you! ;  Lovely to see you! ;   Gorgeous day! ;   Meeting you always makes me smile! ;  You put a smile on my face! ;   I feel great to see you! ;   A sunny day to you whatever the weather! ; Feels good to see you! ;   It feels great to be in your energy again! *;   I feel good when I feel you! ;   It feels great to be around you/near you! ;   Heh, here we are again! ;   We are together again! ;  Great to be back in your energy *! ;   Great to reconnect (with you)!*;   This feel great! ;   Wonderful to be with you! ;   etc 

(* personal favourites)

Then¬†share what comes to mind, if something does.¬† Do not feel the need to ‘talk for the sake of talking’ as this is belittling in the extreme, to¬†what it is that you are. Try “I feel to share…”

1. Two energy beings (human beings) meet in the street, they make vibrational demands on oneanother’s time and energy, then part.

2. Two energy beings (human beings) meet in the street, they strengthen one another form their meeting.

Which do you do?  Which is it going to be? : )

I would love to hear any feedback to any changes you notice!  : ) 

We Know Mind, Body, Spirit, But What About The Shen?

The Shen is the aspect of us, the Human Being, that is indicative of what lies beyond.

The Shen is the shine, light or reflection we can see in our eyes.

The Shen resides in the heart chakra, and is visible when we look at something with love, or undertake an activity from a feeling of love. 

The Shen is the source of our greatest creativity.

The Shen is most visible in those of us who regularly do creative tasks from a position of love.  The Shen grows brighter and brighter, as it is regularly used.

When we tell a lie, the Shen is not visible at all, and the eye may appear to have a cloud or a dull veil thrown over it.

No one else in other dimensions will assist lies, so the absence of Shen – the absence of white light –¬†demonstrates that you are operating on your own!

When we do an activity from our Shen, ALL that we are is enabled, so we are easily able to achieve things that may even surprise us – until we know¬†where it comes from and grow accustomed to ‘the way’!

We have spirit guides and more who can enjoy contributing at these times, when we are in an innocence, and a purity about us, that has us holding ourselves in a fixed state of creativity, with an intent that is good for all.

It is at these times when The Shen is strongest in us.

It is at these times, with our Shen engaged,¬†when we can¬†literally¬†achieve the ‘impossible’! : )

Another Way Of Being.

There is a way of being, that has you choose your thoughts when you need them, and has the most useful information contained by you, arise effortlessly, when you need it.

There is a way of being, that enhances all of your senses, to a degree that continues to improve, surprising and delighting you, by becoming more enhanced a you live your life.

Life gets better and better.¬† As it should be, and as is the way.¬† Becoming aware of this, is the way to begin to receive it.¬† Learning tips of self-mastery, is the way to assure it, as you awaken and secure¬†within¬†your body, the¬†reliable ‘hard wiring’ to make it so.

Any other way seems missing of the point really.  Do we not want to be excellent in our design?  Certainly there are reasons many of us can give as to why we do not make the most of our lives.  If we can be so much more than we are being, if we can be so much more capable than we already are, do we not owe it to ourselves Рor at least our children Рto find out how so? 

I was enabled a freshness and a completely unbiased view of life and humanity from my start in life.  There was no where I trusted, no one with whom I felt safe, so all information that came to me from any source, needed to be assessed by me, on its merits alone. 

Over the years I have found what a tremendous advantage this was, as I am drawn naturally to what is good for me, and what brings me joy.  And now, what has me wanting to share guaranteed life maximizing guidelines with the rest of my species!   I am enjoying bringing these writings to you! : )


I Think Therefore I Am? No.

  • correction of an historical human error that holds us back.

I feel,  I think,  I speak,  I create, therefore I am.

This is actually far more accurate, than the original ‘I think therefore I am’ if we must condense us down to one sentence at all.;)

So much has been based upon the ‘”I think” therefore I am’ claim,¬†¬†for me to comment on its correction.

I feel.  We had it only partly right.  It is our feelings Рor emotional body Рthat governs our thought process. We feel first, and what we are feeling, will largely Рif not solely Рdetermine what we are going to think of.

I speak.  For me, it was my not producing a sound, that made my mother feel more comfortable with my existence.  It was when I began to make sounds that were starting to be speech, that she made plans for my demise.  For me to speak, made me undeniably exist.

Our sound is our very life essence, and our greatest creative tool.  Our voice is our soul and our life force carried on our breath, as it passes through the unique instrument that we are.  The internals of our face and skull, I liken to the inside of a shell that we can blow into on the beach.

I create.¬† ‘To be Human is to create’ absolutely.¬† We do our creating from our feelings, and our feelings determine what we will think of creating.¬† We create our lives with our speech from our word choice and speech habit.¬† We create our world around us from our opposable thumb ability enabling us dexterity and productivity with our hands.

We create our world around us, according to how we feel.  It is not what happens to us, but how we feel about it, that will be the determiner on everything that we do.  How we are able to manage our feelings will be the determiner of life events and life on earth. : )

Holding Bad Feelings That Are Spoiling Your Enjoyment Of Life? Tips To Let Them Go!

  • managing our feelings
  • how and why our feelings affect us
  • what we can do to improve how we feel

Some folk wear bad feelings like they are their favourite coat;)¬† Or have them held tightly around them constantly¬†like a doona/duvet so¬†they are unable to freshly enjoy anything….

Hey I love this “get the attitude of gratitude!” or “the gratitude attitude!”¬† I saw the two words together on¬†a video and I had never noticed how similar they are.¬† I think we can really popularize that – sounds kinda cool! ¬† Or just “the attitude;)” when folk ‘get it”;)

Joy and gratitude are our natural state.  It is completely irrelevant how much healing we still feel we need to do, at any stage of our life, by however horrific an incident!

We are not the same thing as our feelings at all, yet too many of us are holding a bad feeling around ourselves like it is our doona/duvet, or wearing it everywhere like our favourite clothing.  Why?  No one has explained feeling management most likely.

People only ‘have problems’ because they are carrying them around with them the whole time.¬† We don’t need to do this.¬† We can leave them at home/the office/the garage til we’ve dealt with them, can’t we?

Feelings are ours to give us information.  What am I feeling at this time?  Oh ok.  What do I need to do?  Right. Thanks.

Then, let it go.  Returning to a gratitude state, where joy,wonder and delight are easy to experience.  Where sparking an interest in something is not a chore, but a regularly occurring occasion.

Our feelings reside as part of our energy being – in one of the outer energetic fields that surround our physical body.¬† When you are done ‘reading’ the feeling that is uppermost for you at that time, visualize it returning to an outer state of you, perhaps a¬†couple of¬†metres outside of you.¬†

It will sit in an invisible cloud on all sides of you, until it does not need to give you any further information, or until you clear it, if it holds for you unresolved¬† issues.¬† It is called our ’emotional body’.

It is completely separate from you.  It is for you.   You are its manager/mistress.  You do not need to be in consultation with it continuously.  Your job is to keep yourself in a self loving state of health and happiness. 

Balance between joyful episodes, achievement episodes, and time spent reading feelings and thoughts will do this.To spend all your time with your feelings, has you neglect other areas of self.

As joy is our natural state, and as the universe does not do ‘spaces’ , it is guaranteed that any bad, miserable, depressive, hurt,¬†or fearful feelings you¬†had stuck, will¬†be replaced with joy/light!¬† I am able to feel/see it happen.

It is a given.  There is nothing you can do to stop it occurring!   Light will take the place of the dark.  The joy registers universally as white light frequencies, the misery as non light.  Get it?  So doo-oo-oo it!;)        :  )

Comment to a comment I heard on The View on t.v.

  • comments to child abuse
  • more challenging lives examined
  • perspective and reasons given

I heard one of the ladies on The View say “child abuse murder’s the soul of the child”, and I lost my breath for a moment and need to share that it doesn’t at all.

Certainly healing is required, and can be non-progressive when falling into institutions that do not understand the larger workings behind things;)

The truth is, it can be exactly what our soul had chosen.

An enormous amount of behind the scenes organisation goes on, for our soul to manifest in this life, as us.

We choose our situation for manifesting.¬† I was aware of this when living in the abusive situation I was in.¬† I can clearly recall asking my guides¬† “why do I have this life again?¬† Oh yes…”¬† I was brought comfort from it, when there was none else available.

We do not choose each and every event that may occur, but we certainly choose our parents Рour necessity for manifesting in the physical.  We must enter at conception, build our body around us, and be birthed here on Earth.

We choose our parents based upon a number of things, but mainly to enable us the very life path that we are requiring for this round of ‘The Growth Of My Soul¬†Game’ on that glorious¬†green & blue¬†3 dimensional realm called Earth,¬†where we can touch and sense and get a life and a body.

Rather than a child’s soul being murdered through abuse, the soul aspect of that child, may be the strongest and most developed part.

We do not have a life that we are not ready for.¬† We deserve the life that we get for ourselves, in so far as we are seeking growth for us.¬† We are seeking to advance our soul’s development, to attend to healings and experiences that will bring us this growth.

It is the wiser ones, and the more advanced a soul, who is able to achieve for themselves, a more challenging game.

Forget role-playing Dungeons & Dragons…..we are living the game!;))¬† : )

Fast-track to Joy!

  • A quick tip / ‘how-to’ emotionally detach from what may be bothering you, to refreshen your life experience/day!

Here’s a jo/neat trick I learnt from a near-death experience.

Imagine you are another spirit, that has just landed in your body for the day.  You are gone, you have vacated your life for this day.

Remember that what is imagined by you, is just as real for your psyche/consciousness, as if it were really occurring.

Imagine the other spirit, is taking in’ who’ they need to be –¬†or¬†pass themselves off as – to not arouse suspicion.;)¬†¬†¬† Take a look around you, look at your hands as though you are looking at them for the first time.

Such as : Ok…so you are in this family, right… this house, ok… that¬† job, uh-huh.¬† Oh and with that responsibility, got it…….that dog is yours….etc

This spirit gets opportunity to be here on Earth, only by taking on you life, and only for a day.

They are super-thrilled for this opportunity!  They do not care whose body or life they have access to, in order to be here!

Nothing that happened before this time exists.

Notice how you feel.

This feeling, is the most similar that I can describe, for what happens in one of the stages we go through, after we experience sudden and/or unexpected death.  Many others, who also have experienced near-death, can report the same thing.

It gives us the ability to look on our own lives with absolute clarity and perspective.  All emotional attachment  leaves us during this time.

I still consider this to be one of the greatest lessons from my near-death experiences, and I am grateful I can enter into this knowing in a second flat.;)

So, go ahead!  Imagine you have just arrived here on earth, borrowing your body for a day!   Feel the difference.  Feel the detachment you may have.  Feel and notice the freshness or gained enthusiasm you may have.

Take advantage of it to the hilt!¬† You are using wisdom to maximise your life experience…as you are meant to do!¬† If need be, do it everyday. : )

The cult British comedy Red Dwarf, ( I was a huge fan!) ¬†had an episode called Body Swap, and if you have seen that, you’d be on track and all the easier for your imagining! : )

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