The Continual Questioning Of “How are you?”


1. Takes our focus from our goal to Be At One with everything. Life, each other, the Universe. 🙂

I do not answer the question but keep to my regular greeting of someone. We are meant to greet one another with our sound and it is a gift of energy and our essence that we offer them.
I am always feeling what the questioner is feeling anyway because I am an Empath. Often people do not want to know this, and I am feeling their discomfort or sadness….certainly I am not going to say “I am feeling your sadness, 😉 Instead I am reminded how appropriate it is for us to greet one another with our: Greetings! Good Day/Morning/Eve to You! Allow anything further to come from a sharing space, when someone offers the next thing to say that comes to them from themselves.

2. Removes us from the present moment, as we leave it to enter into our mind / memory files / elsewhere, AWAY from the here and now to come up with something to say in response.

We are not meant to be questioning one another anyway. We are the manager/mistress of all our cells/abilities/aspects, and it is for us to choose our thoughts and to direct our consciousness as suits us at all times.
If someone is asking us a question, they are directing our consciousness, they are putting their will onto us. We are all at different stages of conscious development. It is crazy to me when the guy at the checkout in the supermarket starts questioning me,(as is common here in Australia), but as he would do at his level of consciousness.
Honoring one another as the vast and magnificent beings that we are, from a place of gratitude for whatever is chosen to be shared with us, is how we develop and encourage others, to our full potential. 🙂

3. Trivializes our important job of reading our feelings accurately, and acting accordingly.
As humans are design is to manage our feelings, as this is how we receive information from our subconscious selves ie body/intuition/all else we are. It makes it challenging if we become accustomed to a habit of ignoring our real feelings to say something in response to a common question from someone not is doing it as they were told to as part of their job.
Be confident, smile and greet with a gift of your energy, and be in command of where you place your consciousness and focus! 🙂

What Shape Is Your Energy?

Each of us is like one of these grains of sand. 🙂


What form do we want the shape of the energy of our family/community/society /country /planet to be, as we create our way into the future?

Our energy overlaps with another’s, and together we form a larger energy from the resonance of ours combined.  Psychological and bodily functioning becomes easier, as we are supported by this combined energy.

Or we don’t, because we are not in harmony, and our energy is discordant, and we feel separate or alone or even dis-ease.  I used to feel nausea at times when I came into the energy of my psychopathic, very low vibration mother.

As a species we need for those of us with strength in our loving Self, to help raise the others of us, toward a more loving space.

When we combat, it is the energy of those of us in a lower and less loving vibration, who are dominating the activities of the rest of us.  Maybe it is your national service that is requiring you to be warring, and you do so as it is your family’s way, from a place of  pride.

A victorious or winning-low vibration, will occupy itself with low vibe activities.   If the decision was to go to war, then a decision as to what to do afterward will stem from a lower vibration also, often taking the form of ‘judgement, punishment, and blame’ activities.

Negative vibration is only raised by the presence of confident, unwavering, positive, loving vibration.

Forget fact, this is pure science! 😉 And another reason why low vibe activities such as warring, can never result in the natural creation of a loving and health supportive space, which was the initial argument for it. 😉

War always leads to more war, and the dependency grows with the economic value placed upon it. 🙂

Feelings : From Our Subconscious Self to our Conscious Self

Feelings are ours to use 🙂 from our subconscious Self, to our conscious Self.
They are not there to be disguised or ignored or distracted from or tricked into changing into another feeling. 😉  They are to experience, release and learn from.

Historic Britain had no understanding of ourselves and this included the point and purpose of feelings. They were something that only ‘got in the way’ and Britain’s style historically was always to ignore, ridicule, demean or outlaw something it was ignorant of. Consequently, in our societies, we are still behind even ancient other cultures when it comes to knowledge of our feelings.

I process my feelings with interest. I make a conscious decision to observe them, from a place of contentment. I exhaust them of everything I can learn before they leave me. Or, before I consciously negotiate their leaving me.

I am not a prisoner of them, or at their will, but I will always take heed of them. I accept them for what they are and I work with them, creating time and opportunity to reconnect into them when it is convenient for me to do so.

Ignoring this crucial information we are sending to ourselves with purpose, leads to illness. prevents growth. and prevents our experiencing a better life.
There is no such thing as an irrelevant feeling.

As I was born into a place of constant additional suffering, I am very experienced at management of feelings as I have had no other choice but to learn how to master them.
As we are energy, the cause of our feelings is named really well for they are, ‘energy in motion’ = ’emotion’.

Always allow your energy to flow…you are like the basket ball that can never touch the ground if you are still.
You must keep your energy moving, if you want to play this game of life – by the rules of our design – and play it well! 🙂

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