Rules For Being Human.

  • First bit is not written by me but by ‘Anonymous.   I have an idea who, but who am I to blow someone’s cover.;)  It is  excellent and I consider it well worth sharing here.
  • A few tips from me to put it into practice!.

You will receive a body.  You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.

You will learn lessons.  You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life.  Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons.  You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error experimentation.  The “failed” experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately “works”. 

A lesson is repeated until it is learned.  A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it.  When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.

Learning lessons does not end.  There is no part of life that does not contain lessons.  If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.

“There” is no better than “here”. When your “there” has become a “here”, you will simply obtain another “there” that will, again, look better than “here”.

Others are simply mirrors of you.  You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.

What you make of your life is up to you.  You have all the tools and resources you need.  What you do with them is up to you.  The choice is yours.

The answers lie inside you.  The answers to life’s questions lie inside you.  All you need to do is look, listen and trust.

You will forget all this.  By Anonymous.       

It may seem hard at first to trust that what you need to know lies inside you, but let me assure you that it does.  You are not alone by any means.

Get to know inside yourself.  Spend time exploring inside you.  It is a skill to navigate our consciousness, and has only been ridiculed or named as “hippy” or “new age” by those unfamiliar, and insecure with themselves, and seeking to feel better and on familiar ground again…until they don’t again.

Our ground is not familiar though, and feeble short-term attempts to feel secure on it, will only maintain the unhappiness, that is escalating and spreading in phenomenal proportions the world over.

We are so much more than we are currently being.  The only cure is for us to Be more! : )

I Think Therefore I Am? No.

  • correction of an historical human error that holds us back.

I feel,  I think,  I speak,  I create, therefore I am.

This is actually far more accurate, than the original ‘I think therefore I am’ if we must condense us down to one sentence at all.;)

So much has been based upon the ‘”I think” therefore I am’ claim,  for me to comment on its correction.

I feel.  We had it only partly right.  It is our feelings – or emotional body – that governs our thought process. We feel first, and what we are feeling, will largely – if not solely – determine what we are going to think of.

I speak.  For me, it was my not producing a sound, that made my mother feel more comfortable with my existence.  It was when I began to make sounds that were starting to be speech, that she made plans for my demise.  For me to speak, made me undeniably exist.

Our sound is our very life essence, and our greatest creative tool.  Our voice is our soul and our life force carried on our breath, as it passes through the unique instrument that we are.  The internals of our face and skull, I liken to the inside of a shell that we can blow into on the beach.

I create.  ‘To be Human is to create’ absolutely.  We do our creating from our feelings, and our feelings determine what we will think of creating.  We create our lives with our speech from our word choice and speech habit.  We create our world around us from our opposable thumb ability enabling us dexterity and productivity with our hands.

We create our world around us, according to how we feel.  It is not what happens to us, but how we feel about it, that will be the determiner on everything that we do.  How we are able to manage our feelings will be the determiner of life events and life on earth. : )

Near-Death Insight.

In ‘ Fast-track to joy’, I shared a fab trick I learnt from a near-death experience.  I feel strongly to share some other obvious wisdom from these throughout the next week.

A near-death experience can highlight like no other, the perspective ands insights that we are oblivious to, when we are on the earth plane.

There are many people who have also experienced them, who are led to different paths, from where they focussed their time and energy before.

A ‘near-death experience, or spending time in the ‘after ether’;), can be enormously awakening,and refreshing, and I would like everyone here to be able to share in the insight gained! : )


  • .A reminder life is for LIVING NOW!

Is your body your vehicle or your cage?    Is it in good condition and in tune?    Remember here is where we need it…

Here is the only place we run,  jump, leap, taste, touch, & feel.

Here is the only place we can reap the rewards of our senses.

It is not designed to be easy on Earth, but to be a life long series of challenges.  How can we grow all aspects of ourselves otherwise?  Those of us here now, are meant to be here, and we have all the skills we require, contained within our blueprint.

‘Heaven’ is great, and we feel the love & peace – through every frequency of our Being – but  seriously, we may as well be in a drawer for all the variety of feelings, sensations, and thrills we get.





So what is God exactly?

Gosh much confusion this word has caused!  Using the singular word ‘God’ without clear definition, is very misleading and doesn’t quite work – as history and popular culture would show us!

It is actually a misuse of a term that when used as it was originally, denoted different deities for worship and ritual as part of the guidance system used by many different communities.  This made perfect sense, and most all cultures and language groups had such tales, myths, legends or ‘dreamings’ that all worked with this purpose.

It was taken from such a situation, and used in its singular form “God,” more as a creative solution, for persuasion purposes, over those who were now subjects of  ‘ the crown’, necessary to be ruled over, and obedient to a society.

The term God used in this way was so to be a convincing  ‘all superior,’ over the other many gods and goddesses from guiding faiths from anywhere else.   It was a human idea, used for control purposes, at a time historically when there was much fear and invading of other lands, and competition for lands and wealth.

However, when we use God in the singular and as is most commonly used the world over now, we are actually still describing a system, not a single big all-powerful deity.

As intent, or what we mean when we say something, is the magic needed, I am not under any circumstances saying that your meaning when you use the word God, is invalid in any way.

If the word God works for you, as what ever you uphold, that is precisely what it is.  We can only use what ever name we have and know, at the time.  It is ourselves, who attaches with intent, the association.

If we are to use God in this context, I believe it works completely, if the definition for it used, is Governance O’er Dimensions.  Sorry about the ‘o’er’ instead of over, but I did used to sing in choirs and there was always an o’er in something that was so much nicer to sing!  Much of this singing as a child was in churches too, so for me o’er already has a friendly association to the idea.;)

Certainly there is a place we came from, and where we go when we leave the physical dimension, aka planet Earth, and what I mostly choose to call Universal Source.

There is a source of sense and wisdom and all that is- when it isn’t here, though much of it is never here, and what ‘governs’ here.

There is a source of light.  Divine Light. Pure white brightest light that you can actually reach if you are determined enough or if you need to enough, or if you pass over there into it – no matter how briefly.  You can attract more of this light into you, by your own choices and you can source a supply of it as regularly as you feel to, once you know how.

There is a kind of ‘shopping centre complex’ about it to this system;), and one reason why I jokingly think we feel so comfortable in shopping centres!.  Without the shops of course;) but like any large coorporation structure we create here.

There are many rooms and many different folk, and layers and levels and different places to be, and you always know where you next have to be, and who is letting you know that. It is extremely organised.  There are layers and levels within each area and you absolutely are accompanied where ever you go, or are awaited.  That is GOD.

You are energy remember, and when you are there, you are in a returned state of being and knowing, and ‘held’ in a constant frequency or vibration, that we know as love.

Universal source I feel says it better, but again, it does not matter if you have no word at all.  It is where and what you know, inside yourself, whether you know it yet or not!;)

Living In Me – the complete guide to Being Human

An excerpt from the intro of Living In Me – The Complete Guide to Being Human…and some notes that just came out with them…!

“No degree into the human being and all that it can possibly be exists, so I have studied far and wide to give myself the best possible education on this topic.  This has involved combining different undergraduate learnings, from degrees and diploma courses; many diverse work areas;  from ‘throwing myself’ in at the deep end’ in varied and obscure life experiences; travel discoveries; self-healing and personal growth workshops.

We were at one time threatened with death upon even questioning of this,  as it was interpreted historically, as disobedience by questioning the authority of  the ‘Crown’ in rule.  And more than this, questioning the authority of the Crown’s chosen religious practice for the people ruled over.  To question for greater knowledge was determined to be ‘disobedience’ or ‘argument’.  Yet, it is our very spirit that questions, for guidance, and for seeking familiarity for growth and reassurance.

To Be all I could Be was my plan.  A man at a music festival where I was dancing in the crowd said to me, after observing me for quite a while, “you seem to have the upper hand.”  I am used to staring all the while where ever I go, but I don’t enjoy it.  It reminds me of  my mother’s all too critical daily staring, with a screwed up face and mean eyes, as this is the familiarity and association that my own memory files offer me.  ”

We can heal from all of it, but, to remember is a healthy state for us, and should never be feared, but rather used for the potential healing that all these memories offer us.  Areas that are ’emotion charged’ places to go, can bring about the greatest movement of stuck energy from us, and are the best enablers for this, when managed correctly and with such an intent.  I take the opportunity to release stuck energies, that hold me back from living my lightest freest self whenever I get a spare moment to do so.

I don’t mind being viewed when on as stage for performance, as eyes in that situation are eyes of enjoyment and love.   Eyes emit an energy that  can be felt, and eyes in such a situation are encouraging and strengthening to the activity being undertaken. Even to say, these eyes become  a part of the experience, in the receiving of the performance ‘gift’.

We are Primate in the physical and the most threatening thing you can do to some others such as Gorillas, Chimpanzees and Orang Utans, is to stare at them.   Looking at one another, of course, is a part of the courting behaviour for us, to get the attention of who attracts us, but if we do not impress enough to get it, then we are meant to stop our gaze, and move on.

“I am used to questions all day, if I do not have a number of rehearsed responses now, to give myself space from it.  Space from it that I can allow myself mostly due to my commitment to write this book.  Space from it as we are not actually meant to be questioning one another at all really.

The Meaning of Life, The Universe and Everything.  Monty Python.  The answer is 42.;)   Or is that the Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Galaxy?  It never struck me a being anything other than a completely achievable quest or question and I decided to learn the answer, and all about it.  I thought it very silly that it was not freely available, like the books that are all about dogs that you need to read before you have one.

It was sensible to me to know the point and purpose of our existence and what we actually were, from what was known so far to our understanding.  I also figured that would give indication of what wasn’t yet known or understood, and also what was completely being avoided in understanding, ie, from being in”the too hard basket”.

Yet I am in that basket.  I was put there by my own mother.  I have lived my entire life from it, and I feel completely at ease sharing of its contents. And here it is.”

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