Always Choose The Lotus Way.;)

Always choose the way of the Lotus plant :

~ to rise up and out of any murkiness, mucky, dirty, shitty. awful situation;

~to become something beautiful, better than before, transformed by before;

~ nurtured by, strengthened by, fed by, transformed by any bad or unwanted life obstacle;

~ the deeper the muck, the more shit there is, the longer & stronger your stem can be & the higher you can reach!

                    It is your manure!   

It is there to ensure you grow, and reach higher & higher!

Don’t get distracted or swayed from your purpose, or contribute any more shit to it!

Your path is to grow from it,

and because of it.  🙂

My New Healing Page!


I am having an issue with my regular facebook page – we don’t receive technical information as life guidance unfortunately! 😅

As I am no longer using it, the result is the creation of a more direct healing page simply called ‘Healer Amelia’.

This is my replacement page!

I am posting there healing specific to the current issues on the planet at this time and specific personal issues that affect many of us.

If you feel drawn to any – find a quiet space and receive the healing vibes with eyes closed and not while drivibg or operating machinery.

Or sound along with me!  Releasing whatever energy you have inside you that is ripe to leave!

Allow a self nurturing time afterward for further processing, as this is cellular healing that continues over the coming days.

Feel you there!

Amelia 🙂



Meditation, Thoughts, & ‘Inside Our Head’ Goings On…

Are you verbalizing every thought? Or you choose which of your thoughts to put your voice to, or to ‘activate’ or ‘bring into reality’?

Before we have mind discipline, and can turn our mind on and off at will, our thoughts move along a ‘conveyor belt’ in between our subconscious and conscious ability.

Every single trigger, of anything past or present ever experienced, will toss thoughts onto this ‘conveyor belt’.   Our mind is simply the ‘foyer’ – or our access –  to this ‘constant thought belt’.

This is our design, and it is so we have opportunity to operate at our maximum efficiency, in our untrained or undisciplined state, and be made aware of anything we need in any given surroundings or situation.

When we can operate, so that we use our mind only when we need to, are we really are at our maximum efficiency. Then we are free to experience all the many other aspects of ourselves that are completely blocked out by this thought phenomena.

The energy that it takes us to produce constant thoughts, is a large amount of our total, and it is unnecessary.

When we are able to hold a state that is in between thoughts. when our mind is turned ‘off’ and in a stasis til we activate it again by consciously deciding to access data from ourselves, we can totally trust that WE WILL RECEIVE RELEVANT INFORMATION WHEN WE NEED TO KNOW IT.

THIS IS THE TRUE MEANING OF FAITH. All our religious texts speak of faith, and it is our faith that ‘we will know what we need to know, when we need to know it’, that they are actually referring to , whether they know it or not!!! Most likely they don’t.

Sure it can feel like you are in a row-boat and you are pushing away from a bank without an oar, as you attempt to turn off your thoughts. It can feel scary and unknown and it does require courage. There is nothing about self-mastery that is flimsy or wishy-washy. 😉

The practice of learning internal discipline of our mind or thoughts, is what is referred to by ‘mediation’.

Any attempt at meditating at all, is of benefit and does not go unrewarded. Before long you WILL notice other aspects of your life improved, long before you have thought mastery.

It ‘sharpens’ you up. It assists in your receipt of your own senses. I was completely blown away when I experienced a zoom lens ability with my eye-sight receipt, and I wish everyone could receive music as I do, and feel what I can feel. It is just like a physical muscle “work out” only you are exercising yourself ‘inside’ your conceptual awareness of yourself.

DOOOOOO IT! You will not be sorry! 🙂

*  Meditate more easily with this tip:

When you shut your eyes always allow your eyes to roll upward to find their resting place. Take them as far upward as they will comfortably go, and hold.

Eyes just covered with an eyelid, remain ready and waiting to jump into action, making it much harder to distract yourself from ‘physical world’ activities.

Blessings – Amelia

On Just Being…I take up the challenge to define it!

  • 1.Just ‘Being’ defined.
  • 2.What is being in a thoughtless space.
  • 3.What else happens when there are no thoughts
  • 4. Why just Being is a goal we want to achieve as Humans

I am taking words maestro Mr Joel Roberts up on his  challenge!  At his seminar ‘The Language Of Impact’ in Los Angeles last February,  he said that ‘Being’ was beyond description.  It is a place I know well, since beginning to seek safety in the higher realms of consciousness as a small child, when the only place I had to run away to, was as far as I could get behind my eyes.

One example of this is when my older brother would come into my bedroom at night.  He was encouraged to hurt me , actually to attempt to kill me, so it would look like a home accident , at my mother’s ‘order’.  She had an escape route this way and was a firm believer in the old British teachings “people have children to do their dirty work”.  She wanted me removed from the picture, and this way she would not be held responsible.

My brother grew frustrated, as what he did to me only injured me, gave me scars and gave him a feeling of inadequacy.  I could sense his annoyance and I did my best to avoid him at all times.

I could not get away when he visited me in bed however, and he would step up onto it, so he was standing on top of me.  He would pin me down with his shoes and hold a foot up over me, then stamp around me, threatening to stamp on my body and head, moving his foot to just miss me and hit the bedclothes.

This is one example of when I would go as far, and as fast, behind my eyes as I could.  There was no other place to go, as my body was being restricted and controlled.

Joel Roberts is a former prime time talk show host on KABC Radio, Los Angeles.  Today, Joel is president of his own media and communications consulting firm, in L.A and New York.

‘Being’ is a feeling state, and a higher, more evolved state, than just thinking.  To achieve a  ‘feeling state’, requires a controlled cease, of thought activity, or what I call the thought ‘conveyor belt’.

It is our efficiency of design that sees to it, that thoughts flow along what I call the ‘corridor’ or ‘conveyor-belt’ behind our ‘mind foyer’.  These thoughts are given us, by our subconscious, and are thoughts that connect/attach/associate with, everything, that we experience in any given moment from all of our senses and abilities.

In my Self Mastery course structure, “Human Being Essentials”, I have Thought Mastery at semester 1, with Feeling Mastery at semester 2 or beyond, to demonstrate the higher level and governing influence, of the power of feeling energy.

‘Being’ is a superior, specialized, advanced, higher, more evolved, state, than thinking or doing. It is the ability to hold a state of a feeling regardless of what goes on around you, it is a non-reactionary constant state.  For example:

I can just Be love and restfulness or

Be blissful contentment or

Be pure raw sexual energy or

Be peacefulness or

Be radiant love or

Be Creative energy or

Be righteous guidance or

Be loving compassion or

Be healing sound or

Be Woman energy or

Be Divine light or

Be vital enthusiasm or

Be contagious fun and joy and so on.

When we can hold a thoughtless space, we allow for what else is available to us as Human Beings.

What then happens, is information arrives inside us, without us putting it there.  Without us needing to access it from our memory, our thought space or anywhere else.  We do not need to think it, imagine it, dream it or otherwise.

Information – or an idea – ‘comes to us’.  The words ‘come to mind’ may be used here, and you may have already experienced this happen.

It may be an amusing thought – our spirit guidance loves it when we laugh.

It may be the answer to something you already wanted to know.

It may operate like a commentary, where you get data that corresponds with what your eyes scan.

It may be the answer to a life drama, where you are ‘guided’ – given the idea – of the next moves you need to make for your life.

You may receive this information as thoughts that are similar to ones you create, or you may see it visually as though you are watching a DVD.  It may come to you in a way that is unique to you.

In this space you can trust that you will know what you need to know when you need to know it.  This is the “faith” that is referred to in the Bible and similar of any known religious ‘Faith’.

In this disciplined thoughtless space there is no need at all, to be thinking about anything.

The fantastic consequence of achieving this ability, is Life is magnified exponentially in this state.  Every bit of energy that you usually put into thinking goes into receipt of life.

Every sense is magnified to the extent that you cannot believe, believe me.;)

The universe rewards us with an increase in sensitivity.  ESP or extra-sensory perception, also known as being psychic, is only a natural consequence of spending time in your higher levels of consciousness.

As time goes on, life just gets better and better and makes more and more sense.

I could spend hours absorbing just what my eyes take in, when I look at a tree, the depth of colour, the zoom ability, it is absolutely incredible, and all because I am not thinking.

Sexual pleasure takes on whole new height of ecstasy, as we are able to be fully present in this activity – ‘Being Present’ is just being another way of saying ‘Being Conscious’ or ‘holding a thoughtless space’.  Tantra is just another way of  saying ‘Living Consciously’ but it is for sex that it is more widely associated.

No time spent holding – or attempting to hold – a thoughtless space, is wasted as  rewards being to occur straight away.  The first of which is thinking is actually easier and sharper, and we tend to notice an increase in our senses as time goes on.

These rewards continue to build and increase until we leave the earth.

It is simply Human to master your thoughts.

Begin with noticing them.  Bring an awareness of them to your consciousness.  Have the intent to begin to notice them.

Notice when they first arrive, do you have a pattern to them?  What thought do you get when?  Are they ‘ad hoc’, appearing to you ‘willy nilly’, or are they associated with what you are looking at?

And very importantly, notice the space between the thoughts.   There is one, no matter how small or inconsequential at first, and this is an essential part of Thought Mastery.

You are alive now….but being able to just Be…is Being  A.L.I.V.E !!!!   : )

Building Sand Castles (ii)

  • my chapter for the book titled ‘In The Spirit Of Success’ April 2012.
  • guidelines to maximize your life success
  • how to use the 30/30/40 ratio of effort

Like building sand castles in the sand, some things we just do because it leads to a better life.  No one is going to pay us, promote us, or perhaps even notice, yet we build them because something inside us gives us the idea, and we teach our children to do it still.

I was born into challenging circumstances.  My safety was jeopardized by members of my immediate family on a regular basis, but to all outside appearances it was a respectable and functioning family that routinely visited church at Christmas.

Not permitted to speak, even for the purpose of learning, and told to keep out of sight because I was intolerable to look at, gave me enormous time for self-contemplation, questioning and analysis.

I relied on, and was arguably raised by, a mystery inner guidance, as one helpful suggestion after another entered my thought space. I depended upon this to keep me safe, as I received instructions on when and where to move about the house unharmed.  I came to realize I was not alone at all.

This sense of knowing also came to my rescue when on more than one occasion, a pillow was placed over my face while I was sleeping.  I held my breath for the longest time and kept very still, as I had trained myself to do in early infant school.  While other children were playing, I was obediently holding my breath for as long as I could, all day, every day, stretching out how long I could last.

I could not see behind closed doors – I only saw them – but my invisible mystery guidance obviously could.

I had given myself to God “if there was one” , with all the soul and intent of  a desperate toddler. Meditation, or the light I found behind my eyes became my place of comfort.  Time spent behind my eyes and in nature was my greatest source of safety and strength.

In adulthood, a terrible head-on road accident, killed the driver, and left me unconscious and in critical condition.  It required many hours just to cut me from the crushed vehicle, before I was flown to an intensive care unit.  Many simply wrote me off from having any type of quality future life.

Again, I relied on my default way of being, consulting my inner help, and I was guided step by step through a long and complicated process of recovery.

From my wheelchair, the Universe had me spy the dog of my childhood dreams in a pet shop window.  I found her impossible to resist, and my spirit was already running with her.  Physically it took me longer, progressing to crutches, then to walking sticks, then one walking stick, and then how we sprinted together!   These days I even enjoy circus trapeze workshops and dance.

Following another near death experience, (as refining of priorities as they certainly are!), I gained the insight to change myself, to not attract any more of them.  Suffering had been my familiarity to this point, where I felt the most “at home” and I was just attracting more of it.  Lawsuits for personal damages were also not my number one career choice!

What I have learned from my life experiences has been invaluable and I would not want to change the access to knowledge it has given me for anything in the world.  For me, that would be like turning off the light and returning to darkness.

To be human is to create, and ultimately we become the person we choose to be and who we work towards creating.  It is when our thoughts, words, actions, and behavior’s are all aligned that life becomes easier.  Way easier!

We, in human form, are the master/mistress, manager, and caretaker of all our cells, our thoughts, and our feelings.  Here is where we do the best job we can at being the best us, with the knowledge that we have, and within the parameters of 21st century planet earth, while creating the future.


No one can visit you if you do not offer them a chair or a place to park their car.  Well, the same applies for allowing you to express your full spiritual presence.  Spirit world is thought world, and it only needs a space to be heard.

Notice all that you can do daily without using your mind.  Things such as seeing, listening, tasting, smelling, and feeling.  Note that you actually turn the mind on the moment you attempt to access information.  It is the “foyer” equivalent to our memory files and elsewhere, to use or not to use.  Feel confident to pick the thoughts that best suit your life at the time.  Worry is simply an undisciplined thought that is recurring.

No time spent finding a space between thoughts is wasted, and makes all thinking easier and more succinct.  rewards are experienced long before you are able to hold that space for any time.

The space we create becomes our lifeline to ethereal dimensions and our easy access route to our spirit guidance.  Once we achieve this entryway, we can then trust that we will know what we need to know, when we need to know it.


When we give sound to a thought, we activate its creative potential bringing it into reality.  Having a thought is one thing, putting your sound to it magnifies it exponentially and brings it out ‘virally.’

Feel confident to choose your words carefully against the tide of people chatting and verbalizing every thought.  Minimizing your words, maximizes their creative potential.

Your “I am ” statements are your most creative building blocks.  Avoid staying in the common habit of question and answer, as we do not creat when we direct another’s consciousness around.  Aim instead on the habit of restful sharing of what comes to mind from another’s sharing.

An Affirmation is a carefully chosen series of words than when spoken aloud, combine your intent, with your essence and your soul.  Feel it is so, and believe.  For example:

“Today I am the strongest creator of success, health, and happiness for myself that I have ever been.”

The “Universal Absolutes” Requirements for Success

1. Truth.

Exist in a state of Truth, or “Adherence to what is”.  How can those in other dimensions assist you if they cannot rely on you?

2. Good Intent.

Hold a good intent for all.  A love for self and others that is uncompromising.

3. Gratitude.

Be in a state of gratitude.  This automatically fast tracks us for ease of access to higher dimensions be raising our vibration.

Follow these three = ask, receive, with guarantee!

After many years of following this formula, I calculated that intent accounts for 30% of the work, providing you with opportunity, another 30%, and then the physical doing is actually only 40% of effort.  This achieves ‘maximum effect with minimal effort’ and life just makes sense as synchronicites occur around you.

While there is much fascination for what comes before and after life, here on earth is the only place we run, jump, leap, taste, touch, and feel!

Here is our playground, and as with any game there are rules.

See you at the finish line!

Lover of life, love, joy, music ,and all that brings clarity and explanation to a planet in need, Amelia Pinter finds a ready challenge in anything seemingly complicated! She is passionate about creating educational curriculums that reflect our needs, Human Being Essentials, an is seeking publication for “Living In Me : The Complete Guide to Being Human” and sharing her Sound Healing vocal frequencies across the world. For more information on Life or Amelia visit, , ,  

So what is worry?

  • worry defined
  • how to cease worrying

Worry is simply an undisciplined thought process.  When thoughts had become undisciplined in enough people, when ‘how to’ control thinking had been neglected to be taught in enough people, there was a cause for a new term to be invented.  A new word, and a new concept, to make believe we all new everything about what was going on, and  “worry” was born.

All it is, is a thought that is recurring.

To cease worrying, it is important to:

a)  discern between a concern and ‘worry’.   Begin to recognise when a thought, is also a ‘concern’.  A thought is still a thought no matter how it causes you to feel, or what messages it brings you, ie happy thought, pleasant thought, troublesome thought.

A  ‘concerning’ thought =  a thought that requires an action that may be unpleasant, or that may have an unpleasant consequence if the action is not carried out.  Or a thought that does not feel good, whether you know why that is, or not yet.  (How to analyse feelings to bring forth thoughts, to lead to actions, which serve to remove a troublesome feeling, will be covered in a later post.)

b) Consult your thoughts in time of your choosing.  Just deciding to do this kickstarts your subconscious and makes the Universe aware of your intent.  Set aside a time each day for ‘careful contemplative thinking time’.  I tend to do this in the morning, consulting with myself the actions of the day ahead, and asking if there is anything that needs to be brought to my attention.  It speeds up and changes as you get more proficient in it, and are then able to concurrently manage – or read –  feelings, til they themselves give you a thought, allowing them to disappear.

I allow time again later in the evening, when I hold a space for aspects of my Self to assess the day, and ask again if there is anything that needs to be brought to my attention.   Rest assured that you will know, what it is that you need to know, when you are able to hold a thoughtless space.  There is nothing that is going to jump up and get you unawares;))

c)  eliminate the word ‘ worry’ from your vocabulary, your knowledge is greater now.  When you are able to control your thoughts, it is very easy to stop worrying as there just is no place for it.  There simply is no context for it.  It becomes a completely ridiculous and pointless activity.   A self defeating ignorant concept.(ignorance;without knowledge)

d) recognize that you need to start the process of this Self Mastery of thought control, and consultation/asking yourself within, for it to begin to work.   It does not show itself to you before, there is nothing holding up a sign or waving at you to begin.;)   It takes an act of your Self to want to start, and I assure you it is waiting for it to happen, and will meet you in your efforts! : )  Baby steps to begin with, is the sure way of success!

e) during time for contemplative thinking time, i) allow for thoughts to present themselves, ii)consciously decide what action you will take on this thought iii) drop it/let it go/move to the next thought/ask for the next thought, that is the next most important thought to come to you.  In the beginning you may feel like someone pretending to conduct an orchestra for the first time, but it will all fall into place.   It is your holding of  the intent, and the  knowing, that it’s going to work, that will make it work.

Recognize that thought control takes time. It takes practise at getting to know your Self and your individual abilities and ways of working.  It takes a usage of the word ‘faith’ in it’s truest sense; a knowing that something will occur….and it will : )

How many songs are there??

“Don’t worry be happy”  ” Pack up your troubles in your old kit bag and smile, smile, smile…”

Certainly happiness is a choice.  To stop the invention concept called ‘worrying’ is also only a choice!  To your self mastery..!!

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