Clarity for the Current Transgender Arguments.


Such energised confusion at this time! Gender issues, and people  warring verbally over gender & gender related topics.

My role is to explain, bring clarity and redefine where needed.  Many humans are at this time on the planet feeling lost and it is manifesting in all manner of ways.  Historically we have been living in ignorance of what the human being actually is, but this does not give us license to make it all up. There are rules to this Game called Life. Universal Rules and we operate under Universal Law.

A man & a woman in form are very different aside from genitalia.  A woman is an energy being and a cyclic being by design, among other things not relevant to this topic. Man by design is an energy being and more a day-by day-by day-by day being by design, so he can act on his feet, in the moment focusing to the maximum on what is immediately before him. He is also comprised of many other components not relevant to this topic. And with respect to their subtle energy bodies, a man & woman’s energy wheels or chakras rotate in different directions.

These facts are why some traditional cultures always had the woman make the final decisions, because simply by design women can determine consequence far more easily, given them by their cyclic perspective ( every 21 – 28 days cycles of change).

Traditionally – and remaining in some of our remaining indigenous cultures – distinct differences in our genders were celebrated with rituals and ‘rights of passage.’  In some creative, forward thinking areas currently, new groups have emerged to fill this void with supportive Men’s & Women’s celebratory & guiding meet ups.  I cannot recommend them more strongly.

The Sunshine Coast hinterland of Queensland, Australia had a wonderful variety of such regular meet ups with trainings & insights from traditional wisdom available.  Arizona U. S also has such teachings and groups available, and I am sure ‘googling’ will help anyone find the one closest to them in their country and language.

It takes a smart individual to make it through a transitioning of gender. It takes an individual who has a level of discomfort as their norm, and a familiarity with feeling uncomfortable.

In the current transgender words arguing, I am seeing people directing outwards, inner discomfort. I am seeing intellectual bullying of people around them who are not changing to make them feel better.

Healing to feel comfortable, needs to come from within. Those who have felt discomfort their entire lives need to go inward, and do the inner work, to not be constantly attracting dicomfort.   I feel the projecting outwards, of feelings of discomfort, is responsible for much of the current social media ‘warring’.

The Law of Attraction is a real Universal Law.  Finding the peace inside, and not focussing on changing humanity around you, so that you yourself feel better in your own self identity, needs to occur prior to outward societal change.

The current arguing, confusion and angst I am seeing, is largely about only two things : 1. feelings & 2. vocabulary.

1/   Feelings.    

Anyone who is led by their feelings – and feelings DO govern the Human Being  – and decides to alter themselves so they feel better because they ‘feel ‘ like they were born in the wrong body’   or feel they are really a man in the body of a woman or vice versa, of course can recognise that somebody else may feel ‘like a woman who does not want to share a woman’s space, with somebody who wasn’t born a woman’.

BOTH sets of feelings are equally valid.

It is not “I think therefore I am.’   It is I feel therefore I am.

To ridicule and abuse and otherwise purposefully cause discomfort to anyone, because of how they feel, is historically the path of ignorance.  It is the path of insufficient vocabulary to do anything otherwise, to say anything better.  No one chooses the path of ridicule,abuse or defamation, who has the vocabulary to do better, and to come into an understanding.

I refer specifically to the people expressing their feelings, being called “Transgender phobe”. This is an inaccurate statement.  A phobia is a fear..  It is ‘name-calling’ for want of a better thing to say. Name-calling comes from insufficient vocabulary do to otherwise.  Vocabulary extends our very reasoning ability, within our brain, so it is very possible these ‘name-callers’ have no further insight into there being another route that leads to discussion & understanding. But some do., And this, is just a discussion about everyone having their feelings respected, to ensure decisions are made to reflect this.

We Humans are blessed with language ability and there is nothing that we cannot make better through language use.

I LOVE diversity – anyone who knows me personally or reads me knows this.  I spent much of my childhood/teen/early adult years in all manner of alternativedom 😉 creative dress / hairstyles and I support and love us all – all beings, all Earth’s creatures & elements.

BUT I strongly feel I do not want anyone who was a man at any time in his / now her life, sharing “woman space’ with me.  Just as I respect these men/ transpeople for wanting to live as they perceive & believe a woman feels like, I also am to be respected for my feelings.   I certainly deserve to be able to choose to be in an all woman space, free from men being there.

I personally – and like many women who have made it through all the years of girlhood & puberty and so on, have experienced enough violation, abuse, perving, uncomfortable stares, sexual harassment & abuse, to want, deserve and need to know that any spaces I may occupy in a vulnerable condition deemed safe spaces, are.  

It is not uncommon for many to have received no sex education to speak of, no understanding of behaviours or their own body parts!   My mother gave no further details to me than referring to that place one time only as “Between your legs. ”

It is all too common for a woman to have experienced unwanted harassment / abuse at some earlier point.  All women, needing to undress, or be vulnerable in another way that has a space for them to feel safer in – names aside at this point – need a safe space to remain.  All of us can have our safe spaces. No need to take them from another group of people.

Traditionally a Woman’s Space was Sacred and it needs to remain sacred.  This is a basic human requirement to have these sacred safe spaces. Sacred Men Space. Sacred Women Space. There is no reason these need to be broken down…only the creation of more sacred spaces is needed.

There are many reasons someone may say they do not identify with their birth gender:

~It may be genuinely biological, it may be a passing phase that is a valid stage requiring processing, it may be a passing trend caught up in a community feel, it may be part of a mental illness, it may be part of an emotional illness, it may be blatant deception, it may be – for those readers who have further spiritual awareness – that this is in fact the first life as the birth gender, more familiar to be the other, and it is their soul’s path for greater development, to be that particular gender this life.

I have known numerous people identifying as LBGTQ, in my life.  I always aim to relate to someone as a soul, so I really don’t mind what else is going on in their life, as long as noone & nothing is being harmed.  They include my own gay cousin I met as a small child, a twin sharing a womb with his sister, so seems easily biologically explained to me. I  determined a few chose what they perceived as an easier lifestyle for them, while still carrying emotional burdens from unresolved trauma, very sensitive souls they were too. A couple of others were sexually active with the same sex ‘just because’ seeing no reason not to as it seemed common enough to do in the media.  A bi woman friend was making a clear lifestyle choice when she chose to settledown with her girlfriend.  And one, a drag queen neighbour, was the foulest mouthed woman abuser in his every day, as he was on stage.

It is a road of healing, discovery and challenge when we join with our opposite sex, and the rampart misunderstanding of what the human being is, and what being a man and woman really is, makes identifying with someone of the same sex that more appealing and familiar also.

2/ Vocabulary

“WOMAN” is actually WOMB MAN, made short.     Anyone who did have a womb – can choose to be called a woman / IS a woman.

A man ‘who feels like his idea of what a woman may feel like” Which may be close to what a woman feels like, or extremely distant, given the many aforementioned reasons.    I suggest Fe-man  feman.  This is a word not yet taken by any other meaning.   Under no circumstances- an all the aforementioned reasons, is ‘Woman’ accurate.  Feman is a good word, a nice word, pleasant to express and hear, without any negative connotation I am aware of, and accurate.

FE-MAN  for Female Man

Perhaps someone changing from woman to man would prefer this category also. I am open to suggestions to this also, but ‘Man’ is not accurate in all situations for them. It may be enough in some, but not all.

With regard to toilets :

I think the time of sex-divided. communal toilets may be a thing of the past.  I suggest lovely, new, clean ones with all facilities – alongside the disability single door, a number of  single door ones with every facility – so our privates can be private.  😉  No one need know if you choose the urinal or the porcelain seat.  Or whatever equivalent in different countries/cultures.

There are many advantages to having no more foyer / communal space, for safety reasons, hygiene reasons. in addition to the privacy.  I for one, many times have wished I could use the disabled one, without feeling I may be inconveniencing anyone.  Nearly always it has seemed more appealing to me, when walking passed. glancing in on a vacant one. 😉

I really hope this helps.  After all, we all only want to feel safe, respected, happy and comfortable, as the incredible and diverse Human Beings we are. 🙂

Always Choose The Lotus Way.;)

Always choose the way of the Lotus plant :

~ to rise up and out of any murkiness, mucky, dirty, shitty. awful situation;

~to become something beautiful, better than before, transformed by before;

~ nurtured by, strengthened by, fed by, transformed by any bad or unwanted life obstacle;

~ the deeper the muck, the more shit there is, the longer & stronger your stem can be & the higher you can reach!

                    It is your manure!   

It is there to ensure you grow, and reach higher & higher!

Don’t get distracted or swayed from your purpose, or contribute any more shit to it!

Your path is to grow from it,

and because of it.  🙂

My New Healing Page!


I am having an issue with my regular facebook page – we don’t receive technical information as life guidance unfortunately! 😅

As I am no longer using it, the result is the creation of a more direct healing page simply called ‘Healer Amelia’.

This is my replacement page!

I am posting there healing specific to the current issues on the planet at this time and specific personal issues that affect many of us.

If you feel drawn to any – find a quiet space and receive the healing vibes with eyes closed and not while drivibg or operating machinery.

Or sound along with me!  Releasing whatever energy you have inside you that is ripe to leave!

Allow a self nurturing time afterward for further processing, as this is cellular healing that continues over the coming days.

Feel you there!

Amelia 🙂



My Reply To My Brother’s Comments.

received_991566354589861*This is a reply to comments to my blog ‘What’s Christmas All About Really’ & my facebook page.  They were not worthy of a response, but the writer is my brother. So, as outrageous, disturbing & offensive as they are, this is how I remember him, and am grateful he exemplifies some of the hell for me as a child.  But this is many years later, our mother is passed and I am concerned for him.  I am grateful he chose to write to me here, as this medium gives us a platform where I can communicate in more safety, and to be enroute to begin healing his many false beliefs.  The comments I refer to, most I moved to the end of this writing, as they were too awful for anyone to discover unexpectedly under a blog about the Vibe of Joy!  I am also grateful he had the opportunity to voice himself, so I could ascertain from the comments what beliefs he was operating under, and as horrific and memory triggering as it was for me to read, I am thankful to have become so unfamiliar to such nastiness that was once my everyday as a child. I did attempt to create a more supportive situation among UK relations, without success, with even a counsellor present before entering the points I raise here.  But, this is how reality is playing out. 😉  I forgive him & sincerely wish him well, and if I can, there is no reason any of it, should be anything other than a catalyst to real positivity, once realised.


postscript:~  Andrew, this is not finished, but I decided today that I think it will help us both, to release what is ready.  To help give you some peace of mind, and to help me with your continuing abuse.  I will complete it by then adding to it, to address as many of the concerns you remain influenced by.  I will place a number here any time I make an addition.   

~ Unfortunately I am not able to continue with this original plan, needing a break from the stress of this intense work on your abuse directed at me, after so many years of it.  Good for you to realise, and it needs to be another time.

 So many years of horrendous abuse, and then your recent attacks, attempting a reconnection with you has been worse for me than I ever could have imagined,  my intentions were so heartful, but naive ,and the consequences have taken a toll on my health.  This is what I meant when I said to you it is not appropriate to contact me.   I remind you, you are blocked on all my addresses/social media, please abide by this.  If you do have valid reason to ever get information to me, please pass it through our ex Gloucestor -now in Spain- Uncle, or our gingerhaired older cousin.  Under no circumstances contact me again yourself.  I would prefer to not put a restraint order on you, and it is not obviously essential considering you do not have Mary’s condition, but rather you are also a victim of her abuse.  She raised you to abuse me, this I understand.  Thank you for respecting my wishes!


Andrew, I had wanted to reconnect with you in the safety of U.K family for the first time after so many years, and I tried to create something supportive with family in UK without success, with even a psychologist/ social worker present. So, I visited you, and now we are here.  It is not ideal, but it is what it is – how reality has played out – so let’s make the best of it now.  I feel there is no alternative than replying to you here.

Andrew, your comments since I advised you that it was not appropriate that I be of support to you and to connect with UK family –  these comments –  is not O.K with me.  I made excuses for you as a child, and I made excuses for you as an adolescent.  I forgive you, for all you did when a minor / a child.  You are a grown man now, and only you are responsible for your thoughts / actions / behaviours, regardless of from where they stemmed.  You have made criminal offences in your comments thus far : death threats & defamation, and the latter to five people!   Nowadays therapy, self help & wellness practices are many, and if I can forgive you, there is no need for any of your problematic past actions to be a part of your future, unless you yourself continue to make them so.

It has been horrific to revisit the negativity & abuse that was once my everyday.  Horrendous to re-visit & re-experience, it has been debilitating and sickening for me during the preparation of this healing response for you.  Your abuse was always so thorough, so widely encompassing.   Andrew I am not interested at all in these horrible, troubling thoughts you have – mostly nonsense – passed on by Mary, other’s your own.  But, I can see where I can set you straight, with photos and clear memories, that hopefully can be a catalyst to your healing.  I will do my best to explain to you here, what I know.

I do so aware that you always had comprehension challenges, but you can reread in your own time.  I never appreciated how much this was a struggle for you until you asked to copy my Biology homework – that was only comprehension questions to a Biology textbook reading.  I was also sent some of your old school work,  perhaps by mistake with my own, when I asked for these from Mary.  I admit I was shocked.  We never spent time together when I did not need to actively avoid you, or keep a conscious distance, so I was not aware of your cognitive/general functioning in other areas.   I do recall how you may have got D’s where I may get A’s for the same class in high school, and school-report time for you I witnessed being something you & Mary talked through with her giving you encouraging words.   I once asked Mary what was the story behind this school performance of yours’, and she answered with she had left the gas on in Allowa Flats when you were a baby, but knowing Mary as I do, who knows if that were true.  It could just have been an excuse to not get you more adequate support.  It was suggested to me that you are in the ‘realm of autism’ and  certainly, it seems very likely and would explain your challenges & behaviours.

Andrew I chose not to put orders of restraint on you, though my lawyer suggested it, to leave open the possibility of you apologising at a future time and where ever that may have led us.  This never occurring,  I visited you to check how you were, and found there was no opening for any re-connection.  I found you so caught up in false beliefs that you didn’t seem able to stop yourself from telling me, and it was too disturbing for me, given I had no good memories of you.  I did not want to hear a horrific lie about cruelty to my dog. Or any lies about my own life history, or anything negative at all with regards to the Hodgkin family.  And this, on my first visit to you in 30 years. Your harassment in correspondence began soon after, by email/fb, then here.

Andrew, I just knew Mary.  I think I was the only one who did.   Simply put, Mary was unfit to be anyone’s mother.   And all of this – that we are living to this day – is a consequence of how unfit.   I never bonded with her,  and all these years have just been keeping away from her – and her away from me – and that, only after it became abundantly clear that there was no possible rehabilitation for her, made obvious by the final social worker clinic saying to me “Why do you bother?!”

So I stopped.  I bought you both those kittens to make what I saw as a miserable situation more tolerable, and I stayed away.  And yet…   She has needed to make & maintain me as public enemy no. 1, to keep anyone from getting close to seeing what was really going on, behind every scene. She could have had me in her life, but she was committed to continue to live out her creative lying strategies instead. There was no ability to heal in her, as is common with her Narcissistic Personality Disorder, where lies are used as a controlling mechanism given name ‘gas lighting.’

‘Gas lighting’ is a name given to telling lies to control the beliefs & behaviours of others, so much so that they can lose all relation to what is real and what isn’t. Mary also got enormous pleasure from hurting people, by the means of stories blaming others, so the responsibility was removed from herself.  She had no empathy, and no capacity to love.  This enabled her lies to be at the extreme end, always over the top hurtful – as she had no idea how hurtful they were.

When her lies found me by way of a phone call from a lady she’d upset enough to internationally telephone her sister, the lie then travelled back across the world to me, speaking of Mary urgently wanting to talk to me before she never can.  I phoned her in the carehome – remember? I was hopeful she really did have something to say to me but “no.” The only thing said repeatedly was “Oh..oh….I can’t talk, Andrew is coming up the hall and I don’t want him to hear me.”

Now Mary has gone is a time of transition for you.  At the moment I think you are feeling lonely and lost. I think you are regressing to your childhood familiarity, of persecuting me, having everything blamed on me, and focusing on my death.  But this is a time of transition that is an opportunity to live your best life from now on.  I feel this crossroad is available to you at long last.

Here is an excerpt from Dad’s letter. He is replying to the letter I sent him at the same time I wrote to Mary explaining in clear detail why I was putting orders of restraint on her.

“…Thinking back you are basically right about your childhood, your mum was ruling the family, she was saying she knows how to bring up an English family etc, what could I do? Left her, went back to Australia and in the end back to Hungaria. I knew she is heartless couldn’t give love. ”

He used to call her “Nasty-woman-not-able-to-give-any-love.” Did you never hear him?


You were told something awful happened to beloved dog Josie by Mary, and she managed to involve several people in the same lie.   She would have done so, as she felt her control on you threatened by these new influences in your life – undoubtedly contradictory to her – so she needed to gather you all to herself again.  So you would continue to live in the reality she created for you.  Animal cruelty lies and people killing each other lies featuring very strongly.  You are existing in a delusion Mary created to control you, to this day.

Here is a photo of Josie at 13 & half in Brisbane, for her last Christmas, passing away before making her 14th birthday. A Grevillea Moonlight shrub was planted on her grave in the garden.


Here is a photo of Josie taken by someone you defame in one of your comments, while in the care of another you defame.  Here she is looking strong, confident & well, being cared for by the loving friend & neighbour, who loved her and had known her for years.  I got the absolute best person to look after Josie, and I am grateful to her to this day that she did. I had so many injuries from that 1992 motor vehicle accident, I was not able to walk her or give her adequate care even if she had accompanied me to Brisbane at the same time.


…to be continued.


Shave. Or cut the beard closer to the face. At least look as though you embrace life. 😉

Get a chair, so there is a space for a visitor.  ‘Live as IF’ you want to be a part of Life. 😊 Research The Law of Attraction.

You need to focus on positive thoughts IN your own life, rather than negative ones in mine. Make a conscious decision to do this.  You are simply brewing an insane woman’s control tactics over you. Entertain only positive thoughts and words. Begin a Gratitude Journal where at the end of each day you have a special place to write down 5 things you are grateful for. Oprah Winfrey has a lovely segment on this on one of her youtubes.

Have basic house facilities, such as a functioning toilet, so you can have guests feel comfortable. At least live as though a guest may visit.

Take up new hobbies! What interests you? So you have fun, new things to talk of with new people. 😊 You were good at swimming, and other physical sports & games.

Research and join ‘Men’s Groups’. There are a number of them run up the Sunshine Coast area & Northern N.S.W. A great opportunity to develop in the supportive community of Men. You were kept suppressed in development by a self-serving mother and never encouraged to develop and find confidence in your self as a man.

Sell the house. Create a new home. If you do stay get a cat or two from the RSPCA.

Stay with U.K family. Visit them a.s.a.p. They have been caught up in a lot of the same beliefs as you, and can provide a healthier family dynamic for you to witness and be a part of for a while.  Alternate, staying with both Uncle’s families and that of older male cousins.  They may not be able to guide you emotionally & psychologically, but the environment they would provide, will be healing for you to be a part of, pleasing & courteous & most important free from controlling pathogens.

Create a vision board, collect inspiring pictures – e.g from magazines of things you would like to manifest in your life.

Ask yourself in meditation “What do I want for my life” rather than living as a cast-off, something Mary left behind.  You need to focus on your own thoughts, if Mary told you something, I would abandon it as it may – or may not – be true.  You need to get a grip on reality. And you can now, as Mary is not there to hold back your progress. This is positive.

I want you to take a good hard look at your vocabulary. Your words.  4 words you wrote me, after I provided you with many photos and information of your family in Hungary. 4 words in positivity.  Now look at all the words you have written in negativity below.  We create our reality with our spoken word. Focus now on positive words only to bring it into your life.  -)

    • Andrew Pinter
      Andrew Pinter You are a rotten piece of festering dead meat.

“What’s Christmas All About really?”

  1. Andrew

    Amelia Pinter has the genetic genes of her father’s older brother. Who drowned ducklings and hung his wife.

  2. Andrew

    5 years of barking ranting Twitter madness. Narcissist. Biased. Hater. Delusional syndrome. Bark bark rant rant rant. Woof woof like a dog.

  3. Andrew

    Hang with Dad’s older brother’s family. You have the same genes. He hung his wife.

    You have genetic narcissism.

  4. Andrew

    1) Narcissist
    2) You only speak English
    3) You dance badly
    4) Mum was perfect
    5) You are a hateful, conceited deluded ranting barking monster.
    6) You only associate with people you have fooled into believing your story.

  5. Andrew

    Hi fanny fungus

  6. Andrew

    Frequency of fanny fungus ha ha

  7. Andrew

    Gosh Amelia by your description your fanny fungus frequency is real bad. Maybe half a cauliflower on an Onion. Geez you must stink.

  8. Andrew

    5 years of utter Twitter madness. Absolute hate, bias, barking, ranting, delusional narcissistic genetic human loving failure. You need to use at the stake. Burnt after hanging. Buried head down towards help. Josie will make sure you deserve it.

  9. Andrew

    5 years of utter Twitter madness. Absolute hate, bias, barking, ranting, delusional narcissistic genetic human loving failure. You need to use at the stake. Burnt after hanging. Buried head down towards help. Josie will make sure you deserve it.

  10. Andrew

    Narcissist. Speaks only English.

  11. Andrew

    Don’t contact me about the flat. The Hungarians will learn about you.

  12. Andrew

    The face of madness. Look into those eyes.

  13. Andrew

    ranting barking dog

  14. Andrew

    Bigot bully ranting barking dog. NARCISSIST and the rest. Cruel to Josie left out in the cold. Monster.

  15. Andrew

    5 months in the psychiatric ward in 2005 did not help you. You had no insight.

  16. Andrew

    5 months in the psychiatric hospital in 2005 did not help you. You have no insight and want to be a narcissist.

  17. Andrew

    The “information that comes to you from inside” is called madness.

  18. Andrew

    Narcissist aided by the Hogkin’s. Avoided care by family and avoided psychiatrist from age 17.

  19. Andrew

    Amelia Pinter forever known as the coward, traitor and world class narcissist. Only friend of the Hogkin’s for narcissistic reward.

  20. Andrew

    Narcissist and ranter by trade.

  21. Andrew

    Narcissist and ranter by trade.

  22. Andrew

    Narcissist and ranter by trade.

  23. Andrew

    Dave Hogkin of Evatt, ACT Australia. Mr and Mrs Hogkin of ACT. Sue Davenport of Evatt, ACT and Brigid Amelia Pinter 1/12/67. Cruelty to Josie the family dog left out in Canberra winters while Amelia left for Brisbane. These Canberrans are listed for hell.

  24. Andrew

    For a sickening piece of narcissism see any of Brigid Amelia Pinter’s Twitter rantings.


    Amelia Pinter pretending to be nice on fb. Gosh what a strain.

  25. Andrew

    Face of a narcissist who killed a driver to spend his family’s money on life long holiday. Methadone for 11 years. Mum worked to 71 to send money. Mortgaged the house to support. Absolute world class narcissist. Will swap all info about her for free.

    • Andrew I am very concerned for you, so I have organised some photos with a response that I am hopeful can assist you. You are my brother, and even though we have been many years apart, and as disturbing, outrageous & offensive as your comments are, I can relate to why you are like this. I am putting in this effort to help you with what I know.

      • Andrew Pinter Oh Amelia Pinter the fucking piece of shit.
        Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter You are a rotten piece of festering dead meat.
        Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter Hateful narcissistic monster.

      Andrew Pinter Amelia claims to speak over 20 languages. I am her brother and she only speaks English.

      • Andrew Pinter You have been busy liking yourself for 10 years.
      • Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter Look into those eyes. Absolutely dead.

        13 hours ago13h

      • Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter Likely someone will hang you.
      • Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter Genetic narcissist.
      • Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter Pure witch.
      • Andrew Pinter
        Andrew Pinter Police – just look at Twitter.

        From A on Clarity for the Current Transgender Arguments. [Pending]

        Fucking idiot

        Amelia Pinter Andrew I have prepared something for you in reply to your many disturbing comments. I have needed time as it is a most unpleasant task, has required time to ascertain your beliefs & from where/when/whom they have stemmed, & to access the photos to help you. Not because your comments themselves are worthy of any response, but this is how I remember you, and simply because I can help explain somethings. This is a time when you are at a ‘life cross-road’, and I know I can help with what I will share. Then, UK family are the best ones to remain in contact with. Visit your fave UK relations when restrictions are over!. There is nothing – or no one – to stop your progress, now. Sincerely blessings to you and a brighter path ahead.

    What’s Christmas all about really?


    It’s all about the vibe. 😉

    As the world embraces – or not – ‘christmas’,  whatever you believe to any story,  is actually irrelevant as the point is, to raise our vibration to attain that of joy, love & gratitude frequencies.

    The ritual of gift giving, sharing & providing is a fast & sure way of getting folk to get their energy into the higher vibration of these. It can be done consciously by way of an internal emotional gear shift, such as I do to fast track into a meditative state to enable instant connection with source.

    It can be done wrong too. I can recall all too clearly being dictated to exactly, and how, and with what perpendicular drape, to every strand of tinsel.  There was no joy there, only a reduction to my vibration and I couldn’t wait for the ordeal to be over so I could get away.  But it did look a stunning tree for the photographs to relatives overseas.  Missing the point… 😉

    All atoms are moving right?;)

    Our energy, containing and surrounding our body, moves according to that which we are feeling. Higher or lower ie at a faster or slower rate.

    The vibe of gratitude is one of our highest, with hate & blame for example, among our lowest on the scale.

    Forget historic stories and warring agendas of our ruling parties for now, 😉 Christ Emanuel aka Jesus was only ever about feeling love & joy anyway.

    Society’s creativity around something we just cannot let go of, by way of commercial marketing, is because we know ‘something’ to be of value, and we contain it inside our self. It stems nowhere else that inside us.

    What we do or how we occupy ourselves for this Christmas time, depends upon where we are on the globe, what we do for work & play, what beliefs we contain around this day, and all the days of our life leading up to this one. Otherwise we are exactly the same, as our needs, wants and vibrating ability of our energy! 😀

    There is no judgement, there is no comparison, as there is no need. 😉 It still is only ever about feeling love, joy, and being in a state of gratitude,  however 😉 doing whatever, 😉 where ever. 😉

    So please go ahead, share that love, joy & gratitude today, but stay in the energy of it for the every day ahead too. 🙂

    Blessings to all of us. ❤

    Update Education! Human first, career/job second…

    With the development of the education system to fulfill societal needs and our ‘career paths’, we forgot we are meant to be developing continually as humans. We forgot our real ‘path’.  Of course we can keep on top of both, us modern-day humans.

    Our learning NEVER stops. We have our own lessons one after another., that are perfect for each of us, exactly as we need for that stage of our development.

    Our lives may not be so challenged as another’s. Some of us may have relatively uneventful lives while others seem to go through one large event after another. But it is those ones of us who had no escape from realizing this early in our childhood who can see it all so clearly.

    Human life path development must come first, then career.
    Our ‘work’ can accommodate us. We created these jobs when we were ignorant of our real needs, with some tweaking, additional flexibility, regular job swapping or exchanging of tasks, we can allow for our innate creativity need for change, and personal development.

    To Be human is to create, so there is nothing we can not solve or create our way out of, that we created in the beginning.  Moving forward is something we humans innate know how to do, we only need to realize ourselves.  🙂

    Bliss? What is that really?

    Whether we know it or not, it is bliss that we seek…in all things. But what is bliss?

    There is no harm in any personal interpretations you give to this word as the highest form of ‘niceness’ yet experienced, as long as you give it an evolving allowance. 😉 because it will.

    Bliss in its highest form is a feeling of love, warmth, ultimate joy and complete peace ALL AT ONCE. 🙂

    It is as a thick, heavy deep love ‘soup’ we feel we float in, a warmth that is all permeating, as a physical feeling especially to our heart, and a peace that is so powerful it transgresses into exhilaration. I could not believe it at first…I still marvel at it. and I think we are meant to. 😉 I mean how can it truly be ‘bliss’ otherwise, if we humans can get bored with it? 😉 It is a dumbfounding, overwhelming, optimal feeling, every time. 🙂

    In that space where we are healed from all our ‘shadows’ or past issues or problems or memories, that find us in our space between our thoughts, we will feel bliss.

    It is our pinnacle of meditative space, within which we can ask for guidance, assess our lives, or just ‘float’ in it this glorious feeling.

    It is the space we can access when we ascend, journeying through all the portals, and there we see as well as feel and float in its warmth.

    Bliss is attainable by all of us, and we know it subconsciously and why we go to so many different lengths/ pursuits & mediums to try to feel it through alcohol or other drugs.

    The cheapest and most assured way to have it in your kit – available for you at anytime – is to find and make friends with your thought-less space.  Don’t be afraid of it.  It is just you. 😉   It is in this space between our thoughts where we present ourselves with our next inner stuff to be dealt with/healed.  Where else do we have for this inner work-shopping, except the space between our thoughts?

    Managing our self by clearing out what is here regularly, provides the ‘parking space’ for bliss.  When we have attained bliss, we can then do our internal ‘housekeeping’ from this place.

    The purpose of bliss is to recharge us, rest and reboot us, 😉  It is our natural docking station. 😉  the place we want to Be. 🙂

    Brexit, A Backward Step Motivated by Unhealed Ignorance & Fear.

    An elected government representative has a duty to reflect the desires of his/her ‘constituents’/ area of people, but what happens when such people have been misguided, un or ill informed, and hold historically imbedded irrational fears, ignorance, and/or emotional and mental illnesses?

    Brexit that is what. 😉 The UK’s foolish result to leave the European Union.

    Britain requires closeness to other languages and cultures for her own healing. Other countries do not suffer the extent of Britain’s pervasive negativity, an emotional illness that causes debilitating mental and physical decline,which is reflected in her ever-growing sociological problems.

    And herein lies the problem. People inaccurately look to their elected representative to guide them, but guiding them they are not. They are seeking their own personal continuance as an elected official. Job focus. They cannot actually guide them under this design. The system needs ‘tweaking’ to allow for thorough explanations to be given, as currently it is not happening.

    I give the example of my dear cousin Penny Mordaunt who is currently the British MP for The Armed Services. I love Penny dearly, she is genuinely a caring individual, and who was the only one in my family as I grew up who expressed insight and concern for me in the care of my ‘mother’. I know Penny is doing her utmost and believes what she is doing to be the best for her constituents.

    But is it? Unfortunately I believe her job restricts her.

    Penny represents Portsmouth with its high Navy population and has always been interested in, and enormously committed to, improving quality of life for aging Britains. A defence force such as the Navy rely upon precautionary measures and fear and the over 60 years age group most in favor of Britain leaving the EU to ignorantly “go back to how things were”, so Portsmouth, led by Penny as a ‘leave’ campaigner were a good contribution to the Brexit result.

    But under the current system, how can Penny have opportunity to herself to know enough of the EU and implications of leaving it, in order to be able to educate her constituents IF IT IS already against what they want, without fearing her own income security? When can any of our politicians get enough life experience for the larger perspective required also, as they lobby and publicly ‘perform’ their highly competitive route into office?

    According to analysis since votes were counted, the decision was driven by fears and inadequate awareness of what the EU was or did. The second biggest google question asked in UK yesterday was “What is the EU” according to the PBS Newshour tv show just earlier SBS Aus time.

    Historically we received guidance from Wiseones / Shamans/ Kahunas or similar within our own language, for people who had earned our respect, from committed demonstration of living ‘the way’, who’s interest lay in an outcome the same as our own. Where health, well-being and happiness was seen as the biggest wealth. These times are no longer with us, and it has been a while. 😉 but they can be.

    Our current systems do not allow for it though…nor can they create it. Not without us recreating them.

    Where also is the acknowledged development of us as we evolve? 😉  We are not designed to be born to become an employee, requiring someone to represent us so we never develop an awareness of anything outside of our source of income.  Yet this was a key strategic move by historic Britain, to maintain a public ignorance for easy rule and economic growth.

    I say we can fix both.  The two do not cancel out the other, and can happily coincide……certainly more happily than is currently occurring. 😉

    We need to tweak our systems and structures anyway to better accommodate ourselves in health and well being to allow for us to grow and develop as individuals, as is our design, so we may as well attend to all our other responsibilities and agendas within it as the same time.  🙂

    There has never been a way that has worked yet, so no backward step will suffice.  Communication and better relations with other cultures and other languages is what Britain sorely requires.   English speakers miss out on so much that other languages take for granted, and far too many of them don’t know it.

    But how can they know, what they do not know….if they never allow opportunity for it now?  This has been an unwise decision made,  only because people hadn’t the wisdom given them to make it. Is fear and ignorance good reason, or something requiring explanation and healing?  🙂

    Let’s Enable Our Creativity!

    There is no shame in the fact that we have been living without full knowledge of the human being, living within societies & systems under the authority of our experts, constructed for the human being.

    There has been obvious reason for this as our history has unfolded, and choices were made for survival and protection of what was dear to us at the time.
    As is our nature, and Universal Law, we learn as we go, and as opportunities arises. And as is our nature, and universal Law, we are meant to be creating solutions for everything that is adverse to us. Not restricted by our own past creativity, with inadequate ways to bypass protocols, to truly be in the here and now.

    Our ignorance and our denial of our selves has reached lethal consequences, and it is time that we absorb fully our real needs, wants and abilities. Enough has occurred the world over for us to all be able to reevaluate what is most dear to us.
    There will be no argument throughout all languages and cultures, that life itself, is now the most dear to us.

    To be Human IS to create, lets enable our innate solution-seeking creativity. 🙂

    Any Reason To Celebrate!


    Celebration in any language and culture = Vibe-raising goodness!

    “All Hallows’ Evening”, Allhalloween, All Hallows’ Eve, or All Saints’ Eve – and now, modern day Halloween – is seemingly everywhere, even in Hungary!

    Imagine a pagan ritual of old,  other worldly, and other dimensionally, 😉 so much valued by us through the ages, that it has stuck around in a number of disguises.


    There is nothing wrong with us celebrating each other’s events, rituals and special days. It is when we devalue them, and inject negativity into each other’s lives that we do harm, and when we place emphasis on their economic meaning rather than on their human life-giving value.

    I want to know all the world’s festivals and celebrations. The more celebrations we have, well…the more the merrier!  Raising our vibration is a Being Human Essential! 😀

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