Laugh And The World Laughs With You? :-)

More and more often when I laugh in public I hear someone say looking around “What’s funny?”

But laughter comes from inside us, and happy moments come from within.

Our laughter is dependent upon us, upon our interpretation and our receptivity to joy.  Each of these is dependent in turn,  on how much we keep ourselves a free channel, clear of old energetic debris that weighs us down.

The more healed we are of old issues, the lighter our vibe and the greater our ease at laughter.

The more pain and suffering we hold and release, the bigger our container for joy becomes.

And all suffering currently on this planet, if manoeuvred wisely, is enormous joy in the waiting. ūüôā

The Real Reason ‘Marriage’ Was Invented.

  • Marriage defined,
  • how & why marriage was invented,
  • the argument against ‘gay’ marriage discussed in light of this,
  • the greater benefits of viewing all marriage energetically.¬†

For the last few days I have come across Gay Marriage discussions, the arguments for and against and I feel to share the reasons behind why the institution Marriage was brought into our societal structure to begin with, in Western Рpredominantly British European influenced РSociety.  

As there was no understanding by those in positions of influence or rule in British society as it developed, of what  Being Human actually was, bodily acts such as sex had become viewed as distasteful by those in the middle and upper classes.

As more and more emphasis was on the mind, the development of society and the economy,  any distractions of bodily needs were controlled by language use and by etiquette (socially appropriate behaviors).

Clothing had developed to disguise even the body’s shape beneath, and feet and hands were kept covered, as much to hide the animalistic fingers and toes, as to protect against the cold.

There was much discussion and grave concern amongst those in power of what to do about the decline in reproduction Рof the very people they wanted to have children.  Sex was still just as popular among the lower class.

The concept Marriage was invented to encourage procreation, as the ‘solution- seeking’ creativity. ¬†To bring together the bodily act, with the sanctity of a church, so that people who knew nothing of themselves as sexual beings, would feel it was an honourable, godly, and patriotic thing to do.

“For God and Country to lay down and think of England”. To “‘do the dirty deed” It was your¬†service and duty to your country, and it became an acceptable thing to do, was incorporated successfully into society, and Married people soon were given different considerations, standards of dress, etiquette and so on.

The bodily act had become considered so distasteful and misunderstood, that it was considered necessary to repopularise its necessity. ¬†‘Within The Sanctity of Marriage’ was the chosen creation for this.

A man – the father – gave his daughter to another man – she wore white, ¬†as lacy as wanted, for purity, and a ceremony held in a church. ¬†It was performed by a representative of God, as high as you own station in life ‘deserved’ be it a minister or a bishop. ¬†How could anyone feel ‘dirty’ after that? ¬† Everyone knew they would be having sex, it was out in the open, deemed acceptable and no need for gossip. ¬† Sexual activity had successfully become part of an honourable betrothal.

So marriage was invented because the act of sex, of joining, of  divine Union had become so unpopular and misunderstood, and knowledge of anyone engaging in it, was used to degrade them and could lead to loss of station/ respect.   And yes, it was invented to encourage sexual relations between and Man and a Woman.

Gay/Homosexual people really just want it to acknowledged by their society, that they contribute to, and who is meant to represent them, respectful acknowledgement that they are now joined together, and are energetically in Union.   That they are now a couple.

Marriage for a Man and a Woman, would also be better served and more accurate, if it also was considered a Union of energy.  These two are now sustaining one another energetically, contributing to the lives of each other energetically, forsaking all others..

As marriage was invented to encourage sexual activity¬†for¬†child-bearing, it does need to be redefined if we are to expect Gay marriage to be accepted everywhere. ¬†Many people who completely accept that some of us are gay/homosexual do not want to, or feel it appropriate, to need to be called into question to debate another’s right to engage in whatever sexual activity. ¬†This is exactly what is required, however, due to the historical relevance of the origins of Marriage.

Energetic realization of Marriage would also make it easier to transition to a healthier attitude with regard to sexual activity, as discussion opened and receptivity increased.  Marriages would be more successful Рbe more easily successful, if understood in terms of energy.

For me Marriage is a commitment between two that they are now wanting to share their energy, for the better of each other.  Sustaining one another.  If one is weaker, both are weakened, and to strengthen your other, strengthens you.

Energetic realization, is the solution.  Energetic realization is the healing way to look at Marriage, regardless of who enters into it, Man & Man, Man & Woman, Woman & Woman.   Homosexuality has biologically causes, and while there are some people who are just living a homosexual life because it is easier for them, with the knowledge that they have, I predict we will have an increase in the numbers of us who are homosexual.

The growing baby gets all the necessary hormones to become a man, from within the mother,  and while we are in a health crisis, sometimes all the available nutrients for a baby, will not be available at their optimum levels for all.

What unites all Human Beings is our need and want to love, and to be loved. ¬†Marriage is the way for society to regard two Human Beings, who are joined together energetically for the benefit of each other….and the society! : )

An energetic realization of being human,  can only bring solutions to every aspect of life shared. : )

So Feelings Are Energy?

Life is easiest when seen as a giving, receiving and sharing of energy.

If we live where lies are told to us, and given no life guidance in which we can trust, it is in such conditions, that we are able to develop means – from our own creativity –¬†to learn of, and satisfy our own real needs.¬†

It is easier, to learn of real human needs this way, from human wants and human desires.

This was my situation.¬† I learned that the only ‘control’ or ‘constant’ that I could trust, was to rely upon my own feelings for safety and for guidance, as I went about each day.¬† It was an easy realization for me to make, as simple as a) did it work for me and help me thrive?¬† Or b) did it harm me further?

What were these things known as ‘feelings’, I wondered as a small child.¬†¬†

It is true that feelings are energy, that emotion is e-motion or energy in motion.

They were not considered important at all in Britain as the time.¬† To “grin and bear something” were instructions from my mother, as though feelings were a trivial, non consequential aspect of us.

Quite the contrary is true, however, and they are information Рor communication Рfor us, specifically to notice, read, learn or make decisions from.  Ignoring feelings will result in us becoming unwell.

I like to repeat for readers the decision made in Victorian times, for economic growth,¬†that “nothing exists unless there was a tool by which it could be measured”, as a reason for why feelings could so easily be ignored.¬†

What was unseen in Victorian times, was to remain unseen for a very long time. It is only relatively recently that such tools that can observe subtle or inner energies and auras have been developed.

It turns out that we reside inside our emotional body.   Our emotional body is part of our aura.  Our aura is the complete totality of us; where our unseen energy reaches to;  the energy our physical body is contained within.   

‘Feelings’ of the e-motion kind are not the same as messages given by nerve receptors to a specific point in the body, such as provided by neuron pathways.¬† It is just a vocabulary inefficiency that makes this a little unclear for us, to use the word ‘feeling’ rather than ‘sensing from a receptor’. I find I refer to these as ‘sensations’.

Feeling love, receiving love, and giving love.¬† That really is the mark of our¬†achievements.¬† How¬†well do we do those?¬† Which one do we do less well?¬† Use that as a guide to know what more to work on, to bring more joy to you. ¬†To be here in the 3rd dimension – the physical – in the love/vibrational state of our source…that really what it is all about.¬†¬†¬†

Bringing a state of heaven to earth is written and spoken¬†of in churches and gospels, but the above¬†statement is what it really means.¬† The first time I came across the word ‘joy’ even was in a church song ( I loved to sing in them at our Christmas visits)¬† ¬†I had no idea what joy meant, I thought it was just a church word.;)

It is our responsibility to bring joy to the earth Рit is not going to happen while we sit around and wait for it.   And those of us who have suffered the most, can contain the most joy.  How perfect that is.

I wondered why I felt so terrible when I was¬†in close proximity to my own mother.¬† I became nauseous suddenly a few times, just from passing her in the hallway.¬† I became more interested in what I had heard referred to as ‘bad vibes’ and wondered what the cause of them could be.

The family home also had an energy or feeling to it that I could not relax in.¬† I could relate to the wording that I ‘could cut the energy with a knife” that was around my mother, and that filled most of the house.¬†

Ride the waves, feel happiness and delight or ecstasy, from whatever natural source, then expect any grief and anger feelings that may arise, as they leave you.  Welcome them, and welcome them leaving you.  It is simply the Law Of Energetics at work,  it is the efficiency or our design, bringing healing to us without conscious effort! : )

It is how we feel that matters, not so much what is actually happening.  Keeping myself in as joyful and relaxed state of being as I could, absolutely ensured my body heal well, after receiving many injuries in a car accident.  My cells were being newly formed, and I wanted them to be as well as possible, so I gave them as pleasant an enviroment to be formed in, myself!   Music is fantastic for this, as it can maintain our emotional state

Human health will continue to detereorate on a global scale without official recognition of the significance of our emotional wellbeing – the way we feel – to our physical framework, and the world we create around us.

Choose something today to do for yourself, our of loving kindness.  No other reason is required. : )

What’s the point of Christmas? (or be it a ‘culturally different’ equivalent!)

The Point Of The Celebration Called Christmas Is To FEEL GRATITUDE.

Different cultures and faiths may have another story or dreaming or tradition or myth, but the point is the same.  Human Beings gathered together to maximise an energetic vibration that is of benefit to all on earth.  There is absolutely nothing negative about cultivating masses of this frequency.

At its simplest, it is a celebration to join us together in the vibration that raises us the most.

Gratitude is the single most important feeling to raise us, for ease of passage of our consciousness, through the ether. 

Feeling gratitude is the way we can most easily connect with our spirit guides, or anyone beyond the earth plane/3rd dimension. 

So we have it in this century, in Christian tradition, that people give one another gifts, that they place under a decorated tree.  The gift giving is simply to ensure the vibrational frequency of gratitude or thankfulness is reached.  When we join together to feel something we increase and hold more securely its existence.

¬†The decoration of the tree, is simply to create a sacred space by way of ‘ritual’.¬† Taking conscious effort to create a space, makes something more powerful in meaning, more powerful in its receptivity, and its strength.¬† A magnification or reinforcing of intent is achieved.

Intent is a very key aspect of much that we do.¬† Some have said ‘intent is everything’ but I calculate to be at least 40%, with the rest just made up of being there and doing something physical to bring it about.

When we make a space sacred, we put conscious thought there, we put energy there.¬† The more activities we need to do to ‘prepare’ the space, the stronger the ‘spell’ will be – the stronger our foundational ‘force’ so to speak, as we send it into the ether for creative purposes.

Trees to decorate, napkins, special this, special that, things brought out only for such rituals, incense, feasts, coloured lights, special music ALL to hold an energetic space and for no other reason.

It is irrelevant, what the story behind the creation of the feeling is.  The relevance is in the creation of the feeling.  It matters not at all, what you are celebrating.

As we have historically been separated by seas and languages, it stands to reason that we have different stories.  Some of the stories have intertwined, as travels and invasions and wars have been fought, but it is still  the same vibrational need we are serving, and honouring, and just as we should as good Human Beings!

My pondering on the meaning of Christmas began at a very young age. 

My mother would stand, ordering the placement of everything, to be exactly where she dictated.¬† Everything had to look ‘perfect’ to her.¬† She gave orders in very loud and mean toned voice and there were so many rules.¬†

This was repeated every year.¬† There was not allowed to be, any¬†variation, from what she saw ‘intellectually’ or with her mind’s eye.¬† She insisted she knew what it ‘should’ look like, even¬†when others had contributed to it.¬†

The decorations –¬†the most gorgeous decorations I have seen –¬†¬†only created a stressful association, as she stood over whoever placed them on the tree.¬†¬†Orders had to be followed.¬† She commanded not just where, but even how to position them on the tree,¬†with tinsel strands being counted, so you only had two in your hand at any one time.¬†¬†

She literally removed any feeling of joy that had motivated me to be near the tree, or in¬†the sacred space.¬† It felt awful to be a part of the Christmas preparation under my mother’s regime.¬† And yes, the tree would end up looking splendid, but at what cost?¬†

The area was barren of joy – even more so than the rest of the house.¬†¬† It was an area of low vibration, of fear and of¬†negative associations, and there existed the danger¬†of being reprimanded again in some way.¬† Fear is the absence of love, and the most negative¬†vibrational state¬†we can ‘achieve’.¬†

Our tree also¬†had to remain ‘perfect’ to my mother’s eyes¬†the entire time it was up, and be taken down in the same regimented style.¬†¬†I longed to experience a gathering of joy, and I am so grateful I was able to experience this with another family.¬† who I boarded with¬†in my late teens, after a friend’s mother arranged an alternative for me with her neighbours.¬†

Christmas was my favourite time of year as I so enjoyed giving.  However, I was becoming increasing disturbed by how I was caused to feel when it involved giving to my own family.  A little girl can only do her very best for so long, at planning and thinking up gifts, doing what she feels she is supposed to do, if it always resulted in disappointment and lowering of her vibration/removal of joy/sad feelings.  

There came a time when I felt the need to stop giving my mother gifts, for my own wellbeing, and as I felt responsible for the part I was playing in her ill-health.  I felt that my going along with her performance each Christmas, was condoning it, and was playing a part/participating, in its creation.

I considered that if I stopped giving her gifts it may cause her to consider a different behaviour, that it would encourage a different behaviour.  I hoped that she would be given cause to reflect,  to heal, and that it would be seen as a consequence of her actions.  It certainly was not doing me any good to be treated in such a manner consistently, and my inner guidance led me to create my own healing options.

I tried all manner of different ideas and things, over many years, for many of my mother’s¬†behaviours.¬† None with any results that improved the quality of either of our lives, and I had no other alternative but to part ways.

Deprivation is a fabulous teacher, as we get smack in the face, the reasons for things!  It is precisely my deprivation of joy, at times such as Christmas, that ensured that I experienced how relevant it is.  It is in my deprivation of feeling any gratitude or thankfulness directed toward me at Christmas, that enabled me to feel how wrong that was.     

Gratitude.  That is what it is all about!  We can feel gratitude that Human Beings of other faiths/cultures/language groups are doing their bit, in their own style, to raise the vibration on earth.  

Arguing over whose ‘story’ is better than anyone else’s, that brings about the joy, and still remnant while misunderstandings remain, is actually¬†ridiculous, and caused from ignorance (without knowledge).

¬†Survival against fear fulled ideas, viewed with full focusof what was infront,¬†instead of also involving the larger picture, is the reason that¬†judging one another’s beliefs for¬†superiority began.¬† I am extremely sensitive to any misfortune caused from righteously and honourably serving one’s beliefs, that may have led to honourable injury or even death.

It is only a bigger perspective that is missing, and actually traditionally it was woman who had the role in this, and why there is movement happening across the globe to bring about a balance, with each of us able to contribute our specialties!

Why we celebrate for joy is universal – bigger even than humans! – and to be arguing over what story, and whom, is also an embarrassment when viewed with a galactic perspective! : )

Blessings to one and all. ¬†Celebrate.¬† Dance. Sing.¬† But most important feel gratitude!¬† For life, the sun, the grass, the birds, the air, each other…

It is not about what you are eating or what you are wearing.  It is not about anything involving any inventions of ours.  It is about core human feelings, and we all have those!!! : ) 

Make Christmas an entire GRATITUDE DAY, if you can’t for twelve days!!¬† : )

What about us? Lets update the Human exhibit!;)

  • why it makes no sense to ignore our needs
  • what we have changed historically as we became aware of new information
  • how it is that ignorance is holding us back
  • humanity and human ‘what we are’ overview, in brief!

Our Societal construct, as we know it, and as we created it, requires us to continue to behave in ways that are alien to our natural state.

We also created zoos in the Victorian era, and we have been updating those exhibits as we know better, but our own remains largely unchanged!

There is only one zoo in the world, Perth zoo in Australia, that is realising the actual needs of our close relation the Orang Utan.  The entire exhibit was redesigned to accommodate these.

Let’s do the same thing for us.¬† Our societal construct is our exhibit by another name.

When I was a child I had the family pets to look after.¬† The animals were provided with their ‘appropriate¬†housing’,¬† ‘appropriate diet’, ‘appropriate exercise’ and ‘appropriate attention’, as was known at the time for the species.

The hamster had his wheel and jam jar to poop in, that he went in backwards to do.  The guinea pigs and rabbit had their grass run, and straw filled hutch.  The cats had their own flap door in the kitchen door.  The birds had the aviary of  a suitable size and a nest box for breeding.

We know so much more about our own species now, and the Victorian standards of human husbandry;) are no more appropriate to us now, than DDT or cigarettes are to our health, or a metal¬†cage is to an Orang Utan.¬† Most zoos have undergone changes to all if not most exhibits.¬† Let’s just update ours in the same style. : )

I am eager to share,¬†how we differ from one another as breeds of humans and how absolutely detrimental it can be – let alone inappropriate –¬†for someone of another cultural breed to be given facilities suitable for an Englishman.¬† Or for an Englishman in the¬†particular level of self¬†awareness common in England¬†at that time.

Is a labrador the same¬†as a terrier?¬† A cattle-dog the same¬†as a chihuahua?¬† A poodle the same as a Siberian husky?¬†¬† What about a wolf, fox and dingo..they are dogs too.¬† Personalities, strengths, weaknesses, qualities, needs¬†– call them as you will, –¬† they vary from breed to breed.

Fixated upon appearance, the¬†‘solution seeking creativity’¬†of the time¬†had Human Beings¬†classify other Human Beings¬†according to their superiority.¬† The self declared¬†‘superior’ ones¬†classified the others as less superior (surprise surprise!) or inferior, based upon their appearance – largely their facial features and skin colour –¬†and by what¬†inventions that had created.

To be human is to create certainly, and where we are geographically on the earth is the decisive factor in where our creativity leads us.  Where we are geographically, and who invented what, at whatever stage of life wisdom, largely explains every situation we find ourselves in!!

‘Obviously’ to them;) the humans who had demonstrated themselves as superior would be entitled to take the belongings and land¬†of the inferior ones.¬† This ‘solution seeking creativity’ ,aka plausible fiction,;) was¬†for England, when mass poverty, ill-health, and a rise in population had them wanting to seize other lands for themselves to spread out on.¬†¬† They knew of no other solution and the race to take control of other countries began, in competition mainly with other European countries.

Movements to improve, and to further degrade¬†situations for people, had words like ‘race’ and ‘racist’ and ‘racism’¬†used.¬†¬† There has not been much progress in descriptions of ourselves since this time.

I’d love to bring us up to date!

Aside from our differences as the breeds that we are, our Human society requires us to also ignore our energetic reactions to one another as Man and Woman.  Just as much in the English language group as in Islam, though means and methods are undisputedly different.

Our Human society requires us to intellectualize and control natural behaviours,¬†then¬†to ‘act out’ a role or a script.¬† So very British, and so very old and out of date British, and never actually suitable, ever, even for Britain!

Humanity is simply unable to thrive as long as this continues.  As long as we are required to ignore what we mostly are, our needs cannot be realised or fulfilled wide scale, and we will continue down the pathway of deterioration and decline that we are on. : )

All About An Apology.

  • Apology defined
  • Why they work
  • Apologies as energy
  • How to maximize an apology
  • Tips to make speaking one easy

An apology by way of saying “I am sorry” is a gift of energy, to someone who has received an¬†energetic injury.

An energetic injury, or anything that has caused hurt or pain emotionally, requires energy to heal.   This energy comes from our own being, but can be dramatically assisted by energy from another, or may be delayed if none is forthcoming when it is perceived required, or known how it would assist.

Every time we see,¬† hear, or hear-of, the individual who has caused us harm, it is a drain on our energy if any feelings arise that¬† need to be dealt with.¬† A “sorry” or an apology removes this from happening, as we are able to remove ‘the warning’ of them from our being.

It is our wisdom, by way of memory associations, that gives us reminders of who to keep away from.  Our whole organism assists us in keeping ourselves well.

The word ‘apology’ as a descriptive statement after the fact.¬† To say “I apologize’ is not actually itself an apology at all”¬† An apology is an expression of regret for any action that caused someone to be energetically injured.

“I am sorry for all and any of my actions that have caused you harm( and I love you).” is¬†wording that I suggest, to maximise the healing strength of this much needed and FREE energetic wonder! : )

Energetic responsibility is all an apology is.¬† Some cultures/language groups are able to make apologies freely available.¬† Others guard them as though their very sense of self worth depended upon them never needing to say the word “sorry”!

Unfortunately due to complication from economic responsibility that may result¬†from lawsuits, compensation claims, and the like, recognition that we require verbal sound frequencies from just hearing the word “sorry” has not been realized.

I find that my habit of using the word “sorry” as well as “pardon” when I miss what someone has said, had an enormous effect on my own healing, as in my own family no one said the word.¬† My mother even had to go so far as to lie to insist that what had occurred – that required her to say sorry – hadn’t even happened!!

Please release yourself from any intellectual judgement that may come to you, and try saying it as often as needed.

I found it a useful technique in my own healing to at first use the word “sorry” in place of “pardon” when I misheard¬†or missed what another had said.¬† “Sorry” was so not used in my family home, that my mother even had to deny the occurrence of what had happened that required her to apologize in the first place!

All it is, is energetic responsibility.  We are energetic beings, and it is as helpful and as healing to say, for our own learning needs and personal growth, as for the one who needs to hear it.  : )

Time For Energetic Realisation!

  • Introduction to human beings as energy
  • Introduction to historical influences affecting our incorrect viewpoint, and dismissal of feelings
  • Introduction to how men and women differ

Is a change to knowing ourselves as an energetic organism so hard?¬† I think not and feel not!¬† We have only had a vague dismissal of it as we are all so fundamentally human,¬†us Human Beings…;)

Though feelings supposedly didn’t exist, they are one of the most important descriptions to add to¬†a court case when it is being heard.

We all love a love story, and love is a feeling…¬† But feelings having ‘no tool by which they could be measured’, and an emphasis on a patriarchal and logical ‘thinking’ dominated society, put feelings out of context in Britain.¬† It is important to note, that the English language, trails behind the others, in terms of energetic realisation and in vocabulary of it.

Historically women and folk of other cultures, were allowed a more active and acknowledged role¬† in the English man’s societal structure, but not one that contributed, or brought any changes to,¬†its structure, to incorporate a more appropriate and balanced view of life.

There was not the knowledge at that time of the roles of each of our sex, or the qualities and strengths offered by those from other cultures/language groups.

Woman were allowed consideration and given the vote, as they proved themselves to be able to do some things, as well as a man. Still to this day, a woman is determined to be that which a patrichal society declares her to be capable of.

She is yet to be truly appreciated for what she herself is, by society, that a man is not.  This is precisely the balance and consideration that our life giving planet requires.  We as human kind are part of the greater energetic being that is the organism, Earth, and we also have a guardianship role.

Both sexes from other cultures/language groups, similarly, were declared capable enough to be incoorporated into English man’s societal structure, and given the vote,¬†after proving that they could do some things as well as an Englishman.

Yet songs about love are as popular today as they were when the foundations of our society was being formed.   Feelings are something that we have let drive us and leed us astray;) be we Man Woman, Englishman or otherwise.

There came a distinct time in political history,¬†when it was actually considered that the English man ‘had it sorted’, and there were no further changes to the structure and organisation of the political party system, from then on.¬† Parties and policies changed but the organisation did not.

Many years later only, women and both sexes from other cultures and language groups were allowed involvement.  As a woman it is plainly obvious to me that the system was lacking from the very beginning.

As a woman it is easy for me to see how much has led to the situations we have happening at the moment.¬† With all due respect to my fellow-man – I am a lover of men!- a woman’s imput is needed, to ensure the longterm health and wellbeing of all concerned.

A man’s focussed attention ability and problem solving is very compartmentalized.¬† He likes, and requires, things to be dealt with individually, singularly, and in a given set form and structure.¬† Life is not like that however.

Life needs Man to use exactly the skills that he has, in consultation with Woman.  She can, can far more easily:

1.  determine consequence, a woman can naturally hold a larger perspective and picture for consideration.

She is naturally able to easily hold together what is harvesting where and when, is connected to the earth and moon rhythms and is herself a cyclic being, altering and changing according to where she is in her bleeding rhythm.  Man is structurally, and necessarily, a day by day by day being.

2.   a woman has healing knowledge available to her, to keep the community in health, as well as greater ease at receiving ancestral wisdom from her intuition and her secondary connection to the light, that comes from her womb space.

3. a woman does not have playing inside her the very drives that can prevent a man from considering the best outcome for all concerned.

It is a man’s role to be hardwired to get what he can for himself and his, as he is the protector.¬† A woman is hardwired to care for those around her, as she is the nurturer.¬† Man is thinking dominant, woman is feeling dominant.¬† Balance is key for survival.

In another writing I specifically name the time in British history and explain in more detail, to demonstrate the inadequacies of the structure that our own party system is based upon.  I do so simply to show that there is no need to be holding onto it.  I do so to show that we can do much better now.

Now, we have the education and literacy and knowledge spread across so many people and counties, that was not available to the ones who formed the structure we are living by.  It would be so easy to create, and to implement, a system that truly honours us as the amazing species that we are, and that can lead us to grow and thrive.

A consequence of much that has gone before, is that we have many living in the bodies of women as what I term ‘female men’.¬† This is only because they and their families and communities have not yet had the opportunity and learning to embrace ‘woman’ and allowed comfortably for her development.

Fortunately we have a huge feminine wisdom movement growing in strength internationally.¬† There is no need for anyone to fear the development of a woman being all that she is needed to be.¬† Woman is the lover of men, and I can assure all men, that when they have experienced a woman, they will never want a ‘female man’ ever again!

Let’s leave behind that which is seeing us decline.¬† It is stupid and ignorant not to do so, and a whole lot more fun to see us and our planet progress to thrive!¬† As we are meant to do.¬† As is completely possible to do! : )

‘Post Traumatic Stress Disorder’ Energetic Management Tips

My attention was drawn to ‘Post Traumatic Stress Disorder’ as more and more folk return from time spent serving in the armed forces especially. This is something I can relate to, and it, and ‘Vietnam syndrome’ have been given as reference in describing accurately the symptoms¬†that I experience, as triggers of my childhood violence comes to mind during the day.

There are tips I would like to share to bring comfort and peace to this very real condition.¬† It is completely natural and healthy, for our subconscious¬†¬†to ‘bring to mind’ all associations and familiarities, to any given¬†activity, stimuli or environment.

It is something we should recognise in the context that it is a valid skill of ours, that is designed to keep us safe and to facilitate us using our wisdom to the best of our ability.

That being said, if we have been through experiences that are on the up-end scale of extreme suffering, we will definitely sometimes be reminded of things that may cause discomfort of one kind or another.

Kindness to self is what is required.  Having a good memory and an alert and protective consciousness are things we can cherish in ourselves.   They have kept us safe us safe thus far, from situations that could be worse.  As we develop in consciousness and/or spiritualty, our memory abilities only become more and more acute, as all of our senses and receptivity to life increases.

Proven beyond any doubt, is that what is believed to be, registers as what is, by our brain and body.  What is imagined and felt to be true, is what is true for us.  What we believe and feel to be the case, is what is the case for us.

The Human Being is an¬†energy being with all energy outside of the physical body, or¬†what can be seen with the human eye, referred to as the ‘aura’.¬†¬†¬† There are techniques that we can imagine, or ‘see’ or visualize, that are for our service.

The very strongest Auric protection that I use, is to imagine I am inside a pyramid.  I can be at a cafe Рor anywhere Р imagining I am inside a pyramid, where I am completely safe, in an impenetrable place.  Bombs could go off on the outside of my pyramid, or anything, but I am inside, relaxed, leaning back sipping my beverage!

Another helpful technique is to imagine mirrors reflected outward from your aura,¬†to deflect any stimuli that you do not want.¬†¬†Any kind of ‘Auric¬†cloak’ you feel to throw on, or Auric¬†strength you feel to wear. to further strengthen¬†you, do so.¬† If you feel safer imagining you are completely kitted¬†out in your most defensive military¬†garb, do so.¬† Imagine taking it off when you go home.¬†¬† Imagine wearing a little less of it, gradually, as you venture out more frequently.¬†¬† Choose what ever analogy suits you, perhaps you are inside a tank instead of a pyramid?

Rest assured, that the associations or memories that your efficient and protective consciousness is giving you, is completely healthy.  It is simply developed wisdom, from extreme and dangerous circumstances.  Love yourself for it. : )

I had things thrown at me every which way, never sure when I would be punched or yelled at, or have rubber bands fired at me.  I was never sure when I would next experience something painful and I needed to calculate how to move about, and to look behind all doors and curtains.

When I am out somewhere, I place myself in corners or quiet areas that are the most comfortable to me, where I will be disturbed the least.  Definitely and absolutely, the wisdom from everything I have experienced has my reflexes in top order and is not something I would ever wish to lose!

Take care not to invalidate the rest of your abilities, from drug use, that may seem to comfort you by making you ‘vague’ of yourself.¬†¬† Emotional energy that needs to leave you, does not leave you, without YOU making it leave you!!¬†¬† The more we have suffered the¬†absolute more capacity we have¬†for¬†joy, once we release it!!!¬†

This a promise. : )

What irks you most is where you are ripest for growth!

Have you ever had a thought that keeps coming to you, that you do not put there? 

Have you ever had something surprising enter your thought space, that has nothing to do with what you are doing?

Have you ever had a very upsetting memory enter your thought space after a period of fun, joy or sexual release?

I am guessing you are aware of this occurring, in what would be the space between the thoughts of your own choosing.

What is fabulous about the human body Рone of a multitude Рis the automatic tendency toward healing and these thoughts are coming to you with this purpose.  

You are ready to deal with the issue related to the thoughts, to process through and feel the feelings, in order that they are then released from your body and being.  As you are a continuing flow and movement of energy, as soon as there is opportunity for further release and growth within you, this happens automatically.  

Take some contemplative time to ask yourself what you need to learn from the thought. 

1. What is it telling you.  What are you telling you? 

2.What message does it bring?  

3.What action is required to be taken?      

4. Is there anything else you need to know from it? 

¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† Then that’s it!¬† Be done with it!¬† Over! Gone!

It is as though you are a vessel with an opening to release what it is that does not serve you any more, feelings that you once had, aggravation that you once experienced.  It rises to the top of this vessel in order that it may spill over the side, just coming to your awareness when it reaches the top, so that you may facilitate its efficient removal. 

It comes and it comes, and greater joy may allow more of it.¬† When it is stuck or unexpressed for too long we are ‘depressed’.¬† It is a life long responsibility for us to maintain ourselves in energetic health, just as we know we will be sick if we stop excreting from our physical vessel, our¬†digestive tract.¬†

Waste product = what doesn’t serve us anymore and would benefit us to leave = human waste¬†as feces = human waste as¬†old stuck¬†emotion.

Our energetic presence has been misunderstood and unrecognized historically, as it was not able to be observed with the human eye.  Fortunately there are wondrous techniques available now to assist the removal of this energy (also correctly named: stuck emotion, hurtful feeling, nasty association, emotional pain or agony).  

Tapping or Emotional Freeing Techniques work at physically stimulating energy points, sound releasing is a fave of mine, where you release the sound of your energy on the exhale of your breath and there is just venturing into it, allowing yourself to feel it through.  Give yourself a time limit, then a reward!    You can come back to it at any time.   You are then being the manager/mistress of your cells as you are meant to be.

Sexual energy use and the pleasure that creates vibrating throughout the body is an exceptional means to dislodge stuck energies, and quite the purpose!  I dedicate entire blogs to this, as there is so much more that needs to be shared regarding our sexuality.   

For me, I just allow time to do my energetic ‘housekeeping’¬†and auric cleaning. ¬† At the moment I am needing to allow to leave me, energy from being pushed down stairs countless times as a child.¬† There was at no time that I was able to release this from me before, or at the time I was living in such danger,¬†and it is ripe to leave me this week especially.¬†

 I have never had so many thoughts or memories of all the stair case falling enter my thought space before!   All it takes is for me to lower my head a distance, and my cellular memory is providing me with the association, when I was in that position, of what I needed to do quickly as I prepared myself to fall.   I am very pleased to be able to release it now.  I understand completely that my being is able to allow this to leave me now.

I have become very familiar with the process, I do not have any judgement of it as it leaves me,¬†and I look forward to how I feel afterward.¬† I can feel an internal¬†lightening, and I can feel joy take the place of the¬†eager to be discarded or released, stuck, old, used, irrelevant, hanging about, passe,¬†unwanted, unneeded….get it?;))…energy, in the form of emotion.¬†

It is not scary.  It is you, or rather, for your instruction. 

It is you wanting you to let it go.  It is you telling you it is strong enough, and completely ready, to do what must be done for it to go.   It is an act of self love, to give yourself the time and energy to release it, so that you can reap the rewards of the stuck energy being gone.   The more you have suffered, the more space inside you have created to receive as joy! x   : )

Contrived Belief Correction No. 1.

  • correcting an historical human error

The first contrived Belief that needs correcting within our selves so that it may lead to greater understanding and health awareness of all that we are, and of our planet is:

1.¬†the Victorian England era imposed “Nothing exists unless there is a tool by which it can be measured.”¬† A joint purpose¬†powerful economic raising tool and to dispell anything that may distract from hard work, so that it might be ridiculed and labelled “fandangle black magic”.


1. Much exists that is unable to be determined with the human eye.   Though there are tools that can now measure and determine subtle energies these days.  Specifically here I am speaking of electromagnetic rays; inner energy; auras; chi; ki; chuloquai; sexual energy.

We are an energetic organism.  It is these energies, that can not usually be seen with our eyes, that largely control the existence and health of the parts that we can see.

The planet earth is an energetic organism, that we are a part of.

These facts were not able to be observed, so that they may be included, historically, in any plans for, or in any structures of human society.  


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