Clarity for the Current Transgender Arguments.

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Such energised confusion at this time! Gender issues, and people  warring verbally over gender & gender related topics.

My role is to explain, bring clarity and redefine where needed.  Many humans are at this time on the planet feeling lost and it is manifesting in all manner of ways.  Historically we have been living in ignorance of what the human being actually is, but this does not give us license to make it all up. There are rules to this Game called Life. Universal Rules and we operate under Universal Law.

A man & a woman in form are very different aside from genitalia.  A woman is an energy being and a cyclic being by design, among other things not relevant to this topic. Man by design is an energy being and more a day-by day-by day-by day being by design, so he can act on his feet, in the moment focusing to the maximum on what is immediately before him. He is also comprised of many other components not relevant to this topic. And with respect to their subtle energy bodies, a man & woman’s energy wheels or chakras rotate in different directions.

These facts are why some traditional cultures always had the woman make the final decisions, because simply by design women can determine consequence far more easily, given them by their cyclic perspective ( every 21 – 28 days cycles of change).

 

The current arguing, confusion and angst I am seeing, is largely about only two things : 1. feelings & 2. vocabulary.

1/   Feelings.    

Anyone who is led by their feelings – and feelings DO govern the Human Being  – and decides to alter themselves so they feel better because they ‘feel ‘ like they were born in the wrong body’   or feel they are really a man in the body of a woman or vice versa, of course can recognise that somebody else may feel ‘like a woman who does not want to share a woman’s space, with somebody who wasn’t born a woman’.

BOTH sets of feelings are equally valid.

It is not “I think therefore I am.’   It is I feel therefore I am.

To ridicule and abuse and otherwise purposefully cause discomfort to anyone, because of how they feel, is historically the path of ignorance.  It is the path of insufficient vocabulary to do anything otherwise, to say anything better.  No one chooses the path of ridicule,abuse or defamation, who has the vocabulary to do better, and to come into an understanding.

I refer specifically to the people expressing their feelings, being called “Transgender phobe”. This is an inaccurate statement.  A phobia is a fear..  It is ‘name-calling’ for want of a better thing to say. Name-calling comes from insufficient vocabulary do to otherwise.  Vocabulary extends our very reasoning ability, within our brain, so it is very possible these ‘name-callers’ have no further insight into there being another route that leads to discussion & understanding. But some do., And this, is just a discussion about everyone having their feelings respected, to ensure decisions are made to reflect this.

We Humans are blessed with language ability and there is nothing that we cannot make better through language use.

I LOVE diversity – anyone who knows me personally or reads me knows this.  I spent much of my childhood/teen/early adult years in all manner of alternativedom 😉 creative dress / hairstyles and I support and love us all – all beings, all Earth’s creatures & elements.

BUT I strongly feel I do not want anyone who was a man at any time in his / now her life, sharing “woman space’ with me.  Just as I respect these men for wanting to live as what they perceive & believe a woman feels like, I also am to be respected for my feelings.   I certainly deserve to be able to choose to be in an all woman space, free from men being there. Traditional this was so, and it needs to remain sacred.  This is a basic human requirement to have these sacred safe spaces. Sacred Men Space. Sacred Women Space. There is no reason these need to be broken down…only the creation of more sacred spaces is needed.

There are many reasons someone may say they do not identify with their birth gender:

~It may be genuinely biological, it may be a passing phase that is a valid stage requiring processing, it may be a passing trend caught up in a community feel, it may be part of a mental illness, it may be part of an emotional illness, it may be blatant deception, it may be – for those readers who have further spiritual awareness – that this is in fact the first life as the birth gender, more familiar to be the other, and it is their soul’s path for greater development, to be that particular gender this life.

I have known numerous people identifying as LBGTQ, in my life.  I always aim to relate to someone as a soul, so I really don’t mind what else is going on in their life, as long as noone & nothing is being harmed.  They include my own gay cousin I met as a small child, a twin sharing a womb with his sister, so seems easily biologically explained to me. I  determined a few chose what they perceived as an easier lifestyle for them, while still carrying emotional burdens from unresolved trauma, very sensitive souls they were too. A couple of others were sexually active with the same sex ‘just because’ seeing no reason not to as it seemed common enough to do in the media.  A bi woman friend was making a clear lifestyle choice when she chose to settledown with her girlfriend.  And one, a drag queen neighbour, was the foulest mouthed woman abuser in his every day, as he was on stage.

It is a road of healing, discovery and challenge when we join with our opposite sex, and the rampart misunderstanding of what the human being is, and what being a man and woman really is, makes identifying with someone of the same sex that more appealing and familiar also.

2/ Vocabulary

“WOMAN” is actually WOMB MAN, made short.     Anyone who did have a womb – can choose to be called a woman / IS a woman.

A man ‘who feels like his idea of what a woman may feel like” Which may be close to what a woman feels like, or extremely distant, given the many aforementioned reasons.    I suggest Fe-man  feman.  This is a word not yet taken by any other meaning.   Under no circumstances- an all the aforementioned reasons, is ‘Woman’ accurate.  Feman is a good word, a nice word, pleasant to express and hear, without any negative connotation I am aware of, and accurate.

FE-MAN  for Female Man

Perhaps someone changing from woman to man would prefer this category also. I am open to suggestions to this also, but ‘Man’ is not accurate in all situations for them. It may be enough in some, but not all.

 

With regard to toilets :

I think the time of sex-divided. communal toilets may be a thing of the past.  I suggest lovely, new, clean ones with all facilities – alongside the disability single door, a number of  single door ones with every facility – so our privates can be private.  😉  No one need know if you choose the urinal or the porcelain seat.  Or whatever equivalent in different countries/cultures.

There are many advantages to having no more foyer / communal space, for safety reasons, hygiene reasons. in addition to the privacy.  I for one, many times have wished I could use the disabled one, without feeling I may be inconveniencing anyone.  Nearly always it has seemed more appealing to me, when walking passed. glancing in on a vacant one. 😉

 

I really hope this helps.  After all, we all only want to feel safe, respected, happy and comfortable, as the incredible and diverse Human Beings we are. 🙂

 

 

 

 

Always Choose The Lotus Way.;)

Always choose the way of the Lotus plant :

~ to rise up and out of any murkiness, mucky, dirty, shitty. awful situation;

~to become something beautiful, better than before, transformed by before;

~ nurtured by, strengthened by, fed by, transformed by any bad or unwanted life obstacle;

~ the deeper the muck, the more shit there is, the longer & stronger your stem can be & the higher you can reach!

                    It is your manure!   

It is there to ensure you grow, and reach higher & higher!

Don’t get distracted or swayed from your purpose, or contribute any more shit to it!

Your path is to grow from it,

and because of it.  🙂

Laugh And The World Laughs With You? :-)

More and more often when I laugh in public I hear someone say looking around “What’s funny?”

But laughter comes from inside us, and happy moments come from within.

Our laughter is dependent upon us, upon our interpretation and our receptivity to joy.  Each of these is dependent in turn,  on how much we keep ourselves a free channel, clear of old energetic debris that weighs us down.

The more healed we are of old issues, the lighter our vibe and the greater our ease at laughter.

The more pain and suffering we hold and release, the bigger our container for joy becomes.

And all suffering currently on this planet, if manoeuvred wisely, is enormous joy in the waiting. 🙂

Are You Voluntarily Reducing Yourself?

Are you voluntarily reducing yourself?

Are YOU making yourself less than you actually are?

If you know something..you know it.
If you feel something…it is so.

In that moment it is irrelevant “how” you know/feel it, or “from what/which” source, “who else” does it and “what will they think”.

All of this is irrelevant, self-belittling, and requiring disciplining, ‘mind clutter’. 😉 It contradicts your inner wisdom, and is only programming absorbed since your birth, from the maintained and current ignorance around you.

It was seen as necessary to ridicule and ignore, to remove or reduce, our natural instincts and intuition, simply because they could not be understood within the ignorance of English.

As there was no means to understand these concepts when establishing society, they needed to be over-ruled, and the handy “nothing exists unless there is a tool by which it can be measured,” proclamation made in Victorian times, to quickly allow focus to be on economic development, served this purpose.

Of course they, and it, were WRONG, and your feelings and knowings are RIGHT for you, and have been all along. 🙂

War And Peace? Isn’t It War OR Peace?

Assalamu alaikum and Shalom to all of us in the middle east area!

I saw another interesting documentary on events happening in your part of the world. 🙂

Amazing beings kept ignorant to market weaponry is all I see, whenever I observe warring places now.
People maintained in their ignorance, to create a continued market for weapons.

Also, ridiculous borders that were never designed to work, but designed to allow continued success at further procurement, to add only to economic progress, under the guise of being helpful.

And don’t we all just want respect?   It is a natural part of our design and our human need…of course we do.

Battles are never with each other, but only inside ourselves.

The only ‘battle’ we ever have is our own Self realization.
A completely internal ‘battle’ with our own inner realization of ourselves.

And then it is the realization and acceptance of this fact, that enables the spreading of real peace.
Weaponry only creates the need for weaponry. 

Are we brave enough?

Brave enough to realize and accept that all this fighting has been in ignorance?

And don’t many of us who haven’t compulsory military service, go into armies/war partly attracted by a need for courage, camaraderie, strengthening of sexually energy from segregation, and to do something for our country?
Leaving aside for the moment the attraction of having your children educated, a steady paycheck, guaranteed career advancement, respect gained from a ‘title’, all of which were an enormous draw card for developing Britain.  My own British family all took this route.
Can you see how we were made dependent upon continued military actions being made necessary?

All of us wherever we are?  Our current societies DEPEND upon military involvement.

It takes much greater courage, camaraderie and all the above;) to stand on the edge of the unknown….

It is totally time we do something different, so we can do something appropriate!

We have been doing the same stupid thing for centuries, even though we have advanced our knowings/education/research in all other matters!
Can I remind you again that it is chimpanzees that need to have warring situations, as they do not have language?  😉

We can now even speak the same language as the people we are in a confrontation with! 😀 It is crazy not to just talk it out! 😀

No matter what your beliefs or lifestyle, if you are picking up, or holding an invention, created to harm another, all you are reduced to being IS A PAWN ON A CHESS GAME!

I know…..let’s play a better game that suits our design, and allows us to be the amazing creative beings we are!

Blessings 🙂

Raise That Vibe & BE MERRY! Whoever, Whereever & Whatever We Believe!

Raise that vibe & BE Merry!     The time many of us join together to celebrate life is upon us, and all advertising aside 😉  this is the actually the point of Christmas.

I would love us to all the have a weekly celebration of family and unity such as in the Jewish faith. And also a month of this. as with Muslim faith.
The Christian  &  Christian-derived faiths, I find the most lacking in life celebrations and togetherness.

Other than loving it because many of us are raising our vibration to one of gratitude and are generally being more loving and kind to one another, I don’t celebrate ‘Christmas’.

I will wish folk a Merry Christmas but as a sign of respect for those engaged in this celebration, just as I would for all cultures, and all faiths at times of ritual and celebration.

Celebration is a natural state for us Humans, and a part of our design. When we are in the vibration of joy, love and gratitude, our life is much easier, as we will naturally attract beneficial things to us. Our accumulated life wisdom, enables us to maintain a state of joy. 🙂

The point of Christmas is to remind us to celebrate life, and this I do everyday. I have tokens for peace, joy and love visible always up on the wall. They were actually in a shop as decorations for Christmas one year, but it felt more appropriate to leave them on the wall.

I was raised in a house where it was customary to baptize me a catholic, and customary to have a stern ritual of Christmas decorations, presents and behaviors.
A stunning tree with impressive decorations, colorful crackers, carefully wrapped presents in gorgeous quality paper….a fairy on top.

This all made it easy for me to observe and learn, how this ‘Christmas house’ looked to outside observers, compared to how it actually felt to me.

You see, there was evil present in this same house – in the true definition of the word – ‘evil – seeking personal benefit through intentional harm’. Each morning we sang hymns at my school telling me ‘evil’ was not desired, or was contrary to the point.

My mother never said “thank you” and mean behavior returned almost immediately, so birthdays and Christmas became my most unhappy times. There was no joining together at all to celebrate life, it was cold-hearted, distant and detached and you could cut the atmosphere with a knife. But what a stunning tree and lights and tinsel…

So, it is irrelevant if there is a tree, presents, a turkey dinner or not…..ALL THAT MATTERS is that we create the vibe of love.

ALL that matters is how we feel.

ALL that matters is that we all raise our vibration.

I would love it if we joined together in each other’s celebrations, knowing the point of them IS TO CELEBRATE!

And that we also know CELEBRATE = JOY + PEACE + LOVE + GRATITUDE.

Blessings to us all 🙂  who ever and where ever we are, what ever we believe.  Remember they are just alternate same belief systems we are using, to raise our vibration!   🙂

The Activating Ingredient In New Year’s Resolutions Is:

I like the habit of New Year’s resolutions as it makes possible and publicly acceptable, the knowledge that we are able to bring about change within our own lives.

Committing to these changes en mass and in ceremony, reinforces them, as we are strengthening our commitment to this change, with every added effort of energy. The more special we make something, is really just how strong an intent we hold and how much effort we are bothering to go to.

Words written add an enormous extra energy, and candles, preparing a room, music, ceremonial food or drink, all add further energy.
Inviting over others to share in a resolution focused time together all add something much more, as an expanded energy phenomena occurs with this and the energy becomes far greater than just the combined energy of each individual.

Of course these resolutions can be done any time, anywhere.
It is not vital to the outcome at all, when or where of with whom, because it is our Self that activates them and we only need the intent to do so.

WE are the magic that creates change, or not.

The only large benefit that doing it en mass, or in ceremony or such, is that it makes it easier to transpire as it ‘holds the energy’ of things activating, for those of us who still require reassurance, or who get distracted or are not yet so committed or aware.

There is a festival each year in the Sunshine Coast Hinterland of Queensland, Australia called The Woodford Folk festival, and it runs from Boxing Day/26 December to New Years day.
There is a fire ceremony on New Year’s Eve and into this fire is thrown a special basket that has accumulated everyone’s resolutions throughout the entire festival time, as it has been on display in a communal area for this purpose.

I always found resolutions I made as part of this giant group energy extravaganza, particularly easy to achieve, however, it was always the commitment to do so within myself, and the confidence I could do so, that ensured it happen.
Adding joy to everything is always a fabulous bonus and never unnecessary! 🙂

Feelings : From Our Subconscious Self to our Conscious Self

Feelings are ours to use 🙂 from our subconscious Self, to our conscious Self.
They are not there to be disguised or ignored or distracted from or tricked into changing into another feeling. 😉  They are to experience, release and learn from.

Historic Britain had no understanding of ourselves and this included the point and purpose of feelings. They were something that only ‘got in the way’ and Britain’s style historically was always to ignore, ridicule, demean or outlaw something it was ignorant of. Consequently, in our societies, we are still behind even ancient other cultures when it comes to knowledge of our feelings.

I process my feelings with interest. I make a conscious decision to observe them, from a place of contentment. I exhaust them of everything I can learn before they leave me. Or, before I consciously negotiate their leaving me.

I am not a prisoner of them, or at their will, but I will always take heed of them. I accept them for what they are and I work with them, creating time and opportunity to reconnect into them when it is convenient for me to do so.

Ignoring this crucial information we are sending to ourselves with purpose, leads to illness. prevents growth. and prevents our experiencing a better life.
There is no such thing as an irrelevant feeling.

As I was born into a place of constant additional suffering, I am very experienced at management of feelings as I have had no other choice but to learn how to master them.
As we are energy, the cause of our feelings is named really well for they are, ‘energy in motion’ = ’emotion’.

Always allow your energy to flow…you are like the basket ball that can never touch the ground if you are still.
You must keep your energy moving, if you want to play this game of life – by the rules of our design – and play it well! 🙂

Meditation, Thoughts, & ‘Inside Our Head’ Goings On…

Are you verbalizing every thought? Or you choose which of your thoughts to put your voice to, or to ‘activate’ or ‘bring into reality’?

Before we have mind discipline, and can turn our mind on and off at will, our thoughts move along a ‘conveyor belt’ in between our subconscious and conscious ability.

Every single trigger, of anything past or present ever experienced, will toss thoughts onto this ‘conveyor belt’.   Our mind is simply the ‘foyer’ – or our access –  to this ‘constant thought belt’.

This is our design, and it is so we have opportunity to operate at our maximum efficiency, in our untrained or undisciplined state, and be made aware of anything we need in any given surroundings or situation.

When we can operate, so that we use our mind only when we need to, are we really are at our maximum efficiency. Then we are free to experience all the many other aspects of ourselves that are completely blocked out by this thought phenomena.

The energy that it takes us to produce constant thoughts, is a large amount of our total, and it is unnecessary.

When we are able to hold a state that is in between thoughts. when our mind is turned ‘off’ and in a stasis til we activate it again by consciously deciding to access data from ourselves, we can totally trust that WE WILL RECEIVE RELEVANT INFORMATION WHEN WE NEED TO KNOW IT.

THIS IS THE TRUE MEANING OF FAITH. All our religious texts speak of faith, and it is our faith that ‘we will know what we need to know, when we need to know it’, that they are actually referring to , whether they know it or not!!! Most likely they don’t.

Sure it can feel like you are in a row-boat and you are pushing away from a bank without an oar, as you attempt to turn off your thoughts. It can feel scary and unknown and it does require courage. There is nothing about self-mastery that is flimsy or wishy-washy. 😉

The practice of learning internal discipline of our mind or thoughts, is what is referred to by ‘mediation’.

Any attempt at meditating at all, is of benefit and does not go unrewarded. Before long you WILL notice other aspects of your life improved, long before you have thought mastery.

It ‘sharpens’ you up. It assists in your receipt of your own senses. I was completely blown away when I experienced a zoom lens ability with my eye-sight receipt, and I wish everyone could receive music as I do, and feel what I can feel. It is just like a physical muscle “work out” only you are exercising yourself ‘inside’ your conceptual awareness of yourself.

DOOOOOO IT! You will not be sorry! 🙂

*  Meditate more easily with this tip:

When you shut your eyes always allow your eyes to roll upward to find their resting place. Take them as far upward as they will comfortably go, and hold.

Eyes just covered with an eyelid, remain ready and waiting to jump into action, making it much harder to distract yourself from ‘physical world’ activities.

Blessings – Amelia

So If It Isn’t Anything ‘Race’ Or Appearance At All, WHAT Is It That Determines Human Beings?

So if it isn’t about our skin color, face and head shape, hair style or hair color, WHAT is it that determines us? 

VOCABULARY.

As humans we ARE our language.

The ‘race’ word was just used for want of a better word, at the time there was a race on, to claim foreign lands and resources.

We are breeds of humans, defined by our language, and our vocabulary IS our ability.

The SIZE of our vocabulary is the size of our ability!   🙂

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