- Apology defined
- Why they work
- Apologies as energy
- How to maximize an apology
- Tips to make speaking one easy
An apology by way of saying “I am sorry” is a gift of energy, to someone who has received an energetic injury.
An energetic injury, or anything that has caused hurt or pain emotionally, requires energy to heal. This energy comes from our own being, but can be dramatically assisted by energy from another, or may be delayed if none is forthcoming when it is perceived required, or known how it would assist.
Every time we see, hear, or hear-of, the individual who has caused us harm, it is a drain on our energy if any feelings arise that need to be dealt with. A “sorry” or an apology removes this from happening, as we are able to remove ‘the warning’ of them from our being.
It is our wisdom, by way of memory associations, that gives us reminders of who to keep away from. Our whole organism assists us in keeping ourselves well.
The word ‘apology’ as a descriptive statement after the fact. To say “I apologize’ is not actually itself an apology at all” An apology is an expression of regret for any action that caused someone to be energetically injured.
“I am sorry for all and any of my actions that have caused you harm( and I love you).” is wording that I suggest, to maximise the healing strength of this much needed and FREE energetic wonder! : )
Energetic responsibility is all an apology is. Some cultures/language groups are able to make apologies freely available. Others guard them as though their very sense of self worth depended upon them never needing to say the word “sorry”!
Unfortunately due to complication from economic responsibility that may result from lawsuits, compensation claims, and the like, recognition that we require verbal sound frequencies from just hearing the word “sorry” has not been realized.
I find that my habit of using the word “sorry” as well as “pardon” when I miss what someone has said, had an enormous effect on my own healing, as in my own family no one said the word. My mother even had to go so far as to lie to insist that what had occurred – that required her to say sorry – hadn’t even happened!!
Please release yourself from any intellectual judgement that may come to you, and try saying it as often as needed.
I found it a useful technique in my own healing to at first use the word “sorry” in place of “pardon” when I misheard or missed what another had said. “Sorry” was so not used in my family home, that my mother even had to deny the occurrence of what had happened that required her to apologize in the first place!
All it is, is energetic responsibility. We are energetic beings, and it is as helpful and as healing to say, for our own learning needs and personal growth, as for the one who needs to hear it. : )